Anonymous
Post 03/14/2017 10:57     Subject: Confrssion thread

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.


I know and I'm jealous.


It is worse than that -- I am overweight, and not good looking.


You are getting some though... Better than many of us.
Anonymous
Post 03/14/2017 10:49     Subject: Confrssion thread

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.


I know and I'm jealous.


It is worse than that -- I am overweight, and not good looking.


She must like you a latte'
Anonymous
Post 03/14/2017 09:51     Subject: Confrssion thread

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.


I know and I'm jealous.


It is worse than that -- I am overweight, and not good looking.
Anonymous
Post 03/14/2017 09:45     Subject: Confrssion thread

Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.


I know and I'm jealous.
Anonymous
Post 03/14/2017 09:43     Subject: Confrssion thread

I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
Anonymous
Post 03/14/2017 09:26     Subject: Re:Confrssion thread

Anonymous wrote:I have a box of sex toys I only take on work trips. DH knows nothing about them. He thinks I am a reserved Catholic girl, but alone in my hotel room I have by far my best orgasms. I don't know whether to introduce them to him. I think he would be hurt knowing these get me off so much better than he does


Maybe mention it (introducing a toy). He might end up being more into it than you. Win, win. One catch, you have to let him operate the toy, though you can guide him as to what feels goos.
Anonymous
Post 03/14/2017 09:23     Subject: Confrssion thread

Anonymous wrote:That's nice OP won't cheat because he values his FRIENDSHIP not because he values his WIFE. Asshole.


Judgements are in a separate thread. This one is for confessions (or confrssions) only. For instance, you could confess to being an insufferable asshole that hates men and can't hide it.
Anonymous
Post 03/14/2017 08:52     Subject: Confrssion thread

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:My confrssion is that the misspelling of confrssion doesn't bother me at all. I think it's cute. I'm using it from now on.


Aww


No, it's irritating and stupid,
Anonymous
Post 03/14/2017 08:51     Subject: Re:Confrssion thread

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I have been suicidal over DW's affair but can't imagine burdening my kids with that. So I live in agony and I know this is taking 10+ years off my life


You should divorce if its causing you this much angst and start anew. Your kids are better off with a living, functional dad. And definitely seek therapy.

He probably won't see his kids that often that way. Perhaps that bothers him more.
Anonymous
Post 03/14/2017 08:30     Subject: Confrssion thread

Anonymous wrote:My confrssion is that the misspelling of confrssion doesn't bother me at all. I think it's cute. I'm using it from now on.


Aww
Anonymous
Post 03/14/2017 00:10     Subject: Confrssion thread

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That's nice OP won't cheat because he values his FRIENDSHIP not because he values his WIFE. Asshole.


He isn't having sex. That's a real marriage killer. I don't blame him for losing interest in his marriage


But it has been weeks. Please ... Some of us have gone months. Some even more than a year


Yeah, but if it's weeks, then nothing again for weeks so he's having sex like six times a year...the. That's pretty bad. If you haven't had sex for months or years that's on you. Leave or find a solution


NP DW. Why isn't it on the one who is withholding to find a solution to not living up to the most basic expectation of marriage? Presumably he signed up for monogamy, not celibacy.


Exactly


The LL partner will rarely change. As soon as you stop asking for sex they'll be relived and just go in with their life.[/quote

NOW you tell me...
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2017 09:51     Subject: Confrssion thread

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That's nice OP won't cheat because he values his FRIENDSHIP not because he values his WIFE. Asshole.


He isn't having sex. That's a real marriage killer. I don't blame him for losing interest in his marriage


But it has been weeks. Please ... Some of us have gone months. Some even more than a year


Yeah, but if it's weeks, then nothing again for weeks so he's having sex like six times a year...the. That's pretty bad. If you haven't had sex for months or years that's on you. Leave or find a solution


NP DW. Why isn't it on the one who is withholding to find a solution to not living up to the most basic expectation of marriage? Presumably he signed up for monogamy, not celibacy.


Exactly


The LL partner will rarely change. As soon as you stop asking for sex they'll be relived and just go in with their life.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2017 09:05     Subject: Re:Confrssion thread

OP, I know exactly how you feel. I'm a big flirt because my husband doesn't satisfy me.
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2017 09:05     Subject: Confrssion thread

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:That's nice OP won't cheat because he values his FRIENDSHIP not because he values his WIFE. Asshole.


He isn't having sex. That's a real marriage killer. I don't blame him for losing interest in his marriage


But it has been weeks. Please ... Some of us have gone months. Some even more than a year


Yeah, but if it's weeks, then nothing again for weeks so he's having sex like six times a year...the. That's pretty bad. If you haven't had sex for months or years that's on you. Leave or find a solution


NP DW. Why isn't it on the one who is withholding to find a solution to not living up to the most basic expectation of marriage? Presumably he signed up for monogamy, not celibacy.


Exactly
Anonymous
Post 03/13/2017 09:03     Subject: Confrssion thread

I browse the cuckold and hotwife subreddits and masturbate. I am married and have a fantasy of being the bull.