Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
I know and I'm jealous.
It is worse than that -- I am overweight, and not good looking.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
I know and I'm jealous.
It is worse than that -- I am overweight, and not good looking.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
I know and I'm jealous.
Anonymous wrote:I am a 50+ married m. Have not had sex with wife since 2012. But, a 21 yo Barista started flirting with me a while ago. for the last 6 months, I have been sleeping with someone who could be my child by age. No one knows about it.
Anonymous wrote:I have a box of sex toys I only take on work trips. DH knows nothing about them. He thinks I am a reserved Catholic girl, but alone in my hotel room I have by far my best orgasms. I don't know whether to introduce them to him. I think he would be hurt knowing these get me off so much better than he does
Anonymous wrote:That's nice OP won't cheat because he values his FRIENDSHIP not because he values his WIFE. Asshole.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My confrssion is that the misspelling of confrssion doesn't bother me at all. I think it's cute. I'm using it from now on.
Aww
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have been suicidal over DW's affair but can't imagine burdening my kids with that. So I live in agony and I know this is taking 10+ years off my life
You should divorce if its causing you this much angst and start anew. Your kids are better off with a living, functional dad. And definitely seek therapy.
Anonymous wrote:My confrssion is that the misspelling of confrssion doesn't bother me at all. I think it's cute. I'm using it from now on.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:That's nice OP won't cheat because he values his FRIENDSHIP not because he values his WIFE. Asshole.
He isn't having sex. That's a real marriage killer. I don't blame him for losing interest in his marriage
But it has been weeks. Please ... Some of us have gone months. Some even more than a year
Yeah, but if it's weeks, then nothing again for weeks so he's having sex like six times a year...the. That's pretty bad. If you haven't had sex for months or years that's on you. Leave or find a solution
NP DW. Why isn't it on the one who is withholding to find a solution to not living up to the most basic expectation of marriage? Presumably he signed up for monogamy, not celibacy.
Exactly
The LL partner will rarely change. As soon as you stop asking for sex they'll be relived and just go in with their life.[/quote
NOW you tell me...
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:That's nice OP won't cheat because he values his FRIENDSHIP not because he values his WIFE. Asshole.
He isn't having sex. That's a real marriage killer. I don't blame him for losing interest in his marriage
But it has been weeks. Please ... Some of us have gone months. Some even more than a year
Yeah, but if it's weeks, then nothing again for weeks so he's having sex like six times a year...the. That's pretty bad. If you haven't had sex for months or years that's on you. Leave or find a solution
NP DW. Why isn't it on the one who is withholding to find a solution to not living up to the most basic expectation of marriage? Presumably he signed up for monogamy, not celibacy.
Exactly
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:That's nice OP won't cheat because he values his FRIENDSHIP not because he values his WIFE. Asshole.
He isn't having sex. That's a real marriage killer. I don't blame him for losing interest in his marriage
But it has been weeks. Please ... Some of us have gone months. Some even more than a year
Yeah, but if it's weeks, then nothing again for weeks so he's having sex like six times a year...the. That's pretty bad. If you haven't had sex for months or years that's on you. Leave or find a solution
NP DW. Why isn't it on the one who is withholding to find a solution to not living up to the most basic expectation of marriage? Presumably he signed up for monogamy, not celibacy.