Anonymous wrote:The chatter on this and other threads tell me that as a bisexual man it's ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS best to stay in the closet and never share my sexuality with a woman (whereas being a bisexual woman is often seen as a plus by men.)
It's best for your selfish needs if you stay in the closet. It's not fair to the woman, though, if you want a real relationship. She has a right to know about this important part of you. Being bisexual is like being a teenage driver. You're going to be suspect and you'll pay higher premiums because of statistics about teenage drivers in general. Learning to deal with that is part of being mature. It's not fair. It's life.