Anonymous wrote:Or a Pacific Northwest vibe or Vermonty type vibe? Del Ray maybe? Is that as good as it gets? Takoma park?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:What would you say to a Houstonian asking to recreate their lives when they move to NYC?
That's easy. Live in some sprawly part of Long Island. Enjoy July and August. That way you get the suburban sprawl, and the heat and humidity. If not the big hats and the accents.
Seriously, not everyone WANTS to go native. Some people move because they have to and want and need stuff that is more who they were.
I moved to medium sized sunbelt metro in my 20s. A yankee city kid. After 6 miserable months in a 2 story garden apt complex walkable to nothing, with lots of shallow Florida singles, I moved to a 3 story garden apt complex with enclosed entries that felt just a tad more urban and less Florida, that was at least walkable to a drug store where I could buy the Sunday NY Times (one of the few places in the metro area it could be found) that was closer to downtown, and that had a more yankee, more educated clientele.
It wasn't Beacon Hill, but I felt a bit less like a fish out of water. I probably missed some cultural immersion experiences, but I preserved my sanity till I could move out of the metro area.
There is nothing wrong with that, IMO. You may like experiencing the culture where ever you are, but not everyone can do that. Its not like we are talking a 3 week vacation or even a year long internship - for some people, depending on their career, we are talking a long term change. Its scary to think you have completely lost the way of life you like.
Anonymous wrote:The People's Republic of Takoma Park, MD
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP by vibe do you mean stuff to do or the type of people or the flora/fauna?
Kind of both. I feel like people's personalities are tied to the flora and fauna.
Anonymous wrote:OP by vibe do you mean stuff to do or the type of people or the flora/fauna?
Anonymous wrote:What would you say to a Houstonian asking to recreate their lives when they move to NYC?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
What if you moved to Thailand or London and said "I'm looking for a neighborhood just like in America?"
I had a friend who said London was a lot like NYC. Now I don't think he meant there was great pizza in London, or anything like that, but there are I think parallels in urban form, in architecture in some areas, and even in the mood and culture of the city.
There are definitely places in greater DC that are like some other neighborhoods in the USA - so its not a waste of effort to ask.
I think it's fair to ask, "I was happy in xx and xx cities. Where in DC do you think I'd be happiest?" But as a native Californian who is very happy in DC, it is pretty pointless to ask for a place with a Saratoga or Los Gatos vibe in a major East Coast city. The topography and everything else here is just so different.
Maybe instead of asking about how to recreate Santa Ana or Atherton or Humbolt or wherever, folks should ask about the particular aspects that were appealing? Like, where are there lots of SAHMs spending workaholic hubby's money? Or, where can we all talk about having graduate degrees while having nothing like a serious career? Or where can I drive a black SUV, flash a brand-name handbag and wear yoga pants all the time?
Alternatively, you could look for ways to use moving to a new place to experience new things. What would you say to a Houstonian asking to recreate their lives when they move to NYC? How about someone from Dubai looking to recreate that world in Kansas City? You'd tell them that wasn't really in the cards, but an enjoyable life could be had by being open to new things.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
What if you moved to Thailand or London and said "I'm looking for a neighborhood just like in America?"
I had a friend who said London was a lot like NYC. Now I don't think he meant there was great pizza in London, or anything like that, but there are I think parallels in urban form, in architecture in some areas, and even in the mood and culture of the city.
There are definitely places in greater DC that are like some other neighborhoods in the USA - so its not a waste of effort to ask.
I think it's fair to ask, "I was happy in xx and xx cities. Where in DC do you think I'd be happiest?" But as a native Californian who is very happy in DC, it is pretty pointless to ask for a place with a Saratoga or Los Gatos vibe in a major East Coast city. The topography and everything else here is just so different.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Places that come to mind are Glover park and also Arlington between courthouse and Clarendon
No and no.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
What if you moved to Thailand or London and said "I'm looking for a neighborhood just like in America?"
I had a friend who said London was a lot like NYC. Now I don't think he meant there was great pizza in London, or anything like that, but there are I think parallels in urban form, in architecture in some areas, and even in the mood and culture of the city.
There are definitely places in greater DC that are like some other neighborhoods in the USA - so its not a waste of effort to ask.
Anonymous wrote:
What if you moved to Thailand or London and said "I'm looking for a neighborhood just like in America?"