Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I don't think some of you understand what a vice is.

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Like what? Call one out.

Wine for her.

DCUM time wasting for me. And weed and binge drinking for me. But I often go months without either.

I definitely don't go months without porn.

Anonymous wrote:I don't think some of you understand what a vice is.

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I don't think some of you understand what a vice is.

sahm who never washes dishes. Sometimes she will put them in the dishwasher but when she does she puts them in the middle, so I have to move them so the rest of the dishes fit. I come home from work and breakfast and lunch dishes are sitting on the counter. Kids are school age so its not like she doesn't have time

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He spends the majority of his free time memorizing all kinds of financial data/information (exchange rates, GDPs of all countries, various companies balance sheet information, etc.) but doesn't use this information to make money, and his profession has nothing to do with finance. He also wants to regal me nightly with the fascinating happenings of earnings reports.

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I'm a little like this to my wife only with history.

Hehe. It is a little annoying but it's also cute and I love him. I wasn't really complaining. Carry on!

Wasting time. No work ethic at home. All play. No ability to focus and do something boring (without me putting pressure on him or just doing it myself).

He has a great work ethic at work. And when he was in school, he did one of the hardest educational programs there is.

But when he's home, it's movies, video games, minimal work. Even on a long weekend where he's had time to relax, it is rare he will get stuff done. If so, it's stuff he wants to do--no awareness of the fact that I have a project that I need his input on.

Olympic weightlifting. I guess it could be worse vices but his work out sometimes take a long time. When he's trying to make weight he gets hungry and angry. He also love to talk about it and to be honest competitions are boring. I guess the benefit is he is in shape that has a good body

Anonymous wrote:He spends the majority of his free time memorizing all kinds of financial data/information (exchange rates, GDPs of all countries, various companies balance sheet information, etc.) but doesn't use this information to make money, and his profession has nothing to do with finance. He also wants to regal me nightly with the fascinating happenings of earnings reports.

!!!

I'm a little like this to my wife only with history.

Being an asshole

Anonymous wrote:Hmm. Where do I start?
ADHD, Asperger's, bipolar tendencies, all packaged with high intelligence and an inordinate degree of stubbornness. Makes for someone who is nearly impossible to manage.

This is mine. But he only has a specific kind of intelligence, not the kind that helps you with financial planning or how to find and keep a well-paying job. What the hell did he think he was going to do with a bachelor's in philosophy? Also, he would bite off his tongue before admitting he was wrong. Has untreated anxiety that affects the whole family. OK, I'll stop now.

He spends the majority of his free time memorizing all kinds of financial data/information (exchange rates, GDPs of all countries, various companies balance sheet information, etc.) but doesn't use this information to make money, and his profession has nothing to do with finance. He also wants to regal me nightly with the fascinating happenings of earnings reports.

Partying/dancing. He didn't come home until 9AM one morning. (And yes I knew where he was.)

Smoking.

Secret sex addict, though with intense therapy and years in a 12-step program, appears to have it under control. Who knows.

These days his main obvious vice appears to be cigarettes and sucking endlessly on a vape stick.