Anonymous wrote:
They also find fun and camaraderie in basketball during the winter. What I think a lot of people don't realize sometimes is that there are WAY more kids playing house or recreation sports than year-round competitive sports. Most discussions you hear (or find on chat boards) are by the alpha-type parents (myself included at times) who think that the year round, competitive environment is what is the norm. It's really not, again, the bigger number of participants are in the house and recreation programs.
I would encourage you to do what is best for your family and let your kids choose what they want to do, and what works best for your family dynamic. Playing sports seasonally is great and should be encouraged. It is still possible to dip into sport for fun and camaraderie.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Op, if it's not a good fit, let it be her choice. There will be plenty of other competitive sporting opportunities through the years. Something NOT to do is keep her on the team because you like being a swim team parent for you own socializing. Op, you did not allude to this, it's just I've seen it so often.
Hah, I don't socialize with anyone, I just see it a good chance to keep her active in sweltering summer. I can't get her to swim laps when it's just us, but she is learning strokes, taking on her fears of competing, and getting good exercise when it's hard to in the heat. I will just have to help her accept she may be one of the slower swimmers b/c it is not 'her' sport.
Are there really no sport seasons anymore, kids have to pick their sport and train all year? We are not athletic, and I like the idea of soccer and tennis in fall spring, ice skating and skiing in winter, and swimming in summer. But folks are doing indoor soccer training and soccer camp academies, swimming in year round programs, it feels hard to just dip into sport for fun and comradarie.
Anonymous wrote:Op, if it's not a good fit, let it be her choice. There will be plenty of other competitive sporting opportunities through the years. Something NOT to do is keep her on the team because you like being a swim team parent for you own socializing. Op, you did not allude to this, it's just I've seen it so often.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The all star times poster is completely wrong if she is talking about MCSL. Just looked at the results from divisionals today.
Which proved what?
There are very few kids in each event with all star times. Certainly not three from one team in a given event.
For what division?
Every division.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The all star times poster is completely wrong if she is talking about MCSL. Just looked at the results from divisionals today.
Which proved what?
There are very few kids in each event with all star times. Certainly not three from one team in a given event.
For what division?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The all star times poster is completely wrong if she is talking about MCSL. Just looked at the results from divisionals today.
Which proved what?
There are very few kids in each event with all star times. Certainly not three from one team in a given event.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:The all star times poster is completely wrong if she is talking about MCSL. Just looked at the results from divisionals today.
Which proved what?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We are at a D1 pool in NVSL. Almost all our Saturday swimmers swim year round. Our team does not win based upon what happens in the summer, it's all about the year-round training. At our pool, it is strongly encouraged to sign up for a program for the rest of the year. Only 6-9 swimmers per age group get to swim on Saturdays and you don't have much hope unless you swim year-round.
This is well-known, though, so most swimmers go in expecting to only swim in B mets. It can be challenging if your kid only makes 1 Saturday meet because then they realize how much more exciting it is to be an A meet swimmer. Sometimes that motivates them to work harder and sometimes that makes them want to quit because it is hard to go back to B meets.
Omg, so pretentious. If this was my kids team I'd find another one.
In my kids' league the B meets are super fun and even kids who only swim 'A' meets come to them - volunteer, cheer and hang out.
Anonymous wrote:Wait, can we have an MCSL v NVSL meet to see which really has the top swimmers?
Anonymous wrote:Wait, can we have an MCSL v NVSL meet to see which really has the top swimmers?