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Anonymous wrote:I have an AP and I am a married women. My AP is not married and I always wonder why he does not want to be with a single lady...I am posting because I saw the other thread where the question was asked of women sleeping with married men. Wondering if there are men who also do what my AP is doing and why?

Because married women are the best partners for no strings attached relationships, which is what most men want.
They are the best side chicks.

The best for using, abusing and ghosting when they eventually get boring. As after so long, the novelty wears off and she gets annoying. True colors always reveal themselves.

Anonymous wrote:I have an AP and I am a married women. My AP is not married and I always wonder why he does not want to be with a single lady...I am posting because I saw the other thread where the question was asked of women sleeping with married men. Wondering if there are men who also do what my AP is doing and why?

Because married women are the best partners for no strings attached relationships, which is what most men want.
They are the best side chicks.

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Anonymous wrote:DH here: I don't, and have never been unfaithful, but the idea of taking another man's wife is certainly erotic. I suspect that is a common feeling.

I'm female, 44, happily married 18 years. After a lot of indecision, I recently slept with another man. Although he was a complete gentleman, and very focused, I did feel him taking another man's wife was a big deal for him. Sort of an alpha male conquest thing.

Listen up. Men don't like to sleep with another man's wife because the way we men handle conflict is not always pretty. The vast majority of men know to stay clear of women like you.

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Anonymous wrote:DH here: I don't, and have never been unfaithful, but the idea of taking another man's wife is certainly erotic. I suspect that is a common feeling.

I'm female, 44, happily married 18 years. After a lot of indecision, I recently slept with another man. Although he was a complete gentleman, and very focused, I did feel him taking another man's wife was a big deal for him. Sort of an alpha male conquest thing.

Please don't say happily married you stupid p**ce of shit. Does your husband know you cheated? Please ask for a divorce you useless c**t

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Married women that cheat are a specific breed, they think they are feminists but they have the lowest self esteem and have intimacy issues.

THIS! These women just need to feel like they can still pull a guy to try and fill the real hole in their life - their empty self-esteem. The married women on this thread bragging about their APs need therapy more than anything else.

They think they are all that if they can get another woman’s husband to bang them. It’s a crazy psychology.

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Anonymous wrote:I don't have to celebrate birthdays or holidays with her. I don't have to take her in public. I don't spend money on her. I can blow her off any time I want and she can't raise a stink about it. We don't have to discuss our future. She believes lies like, I wish we met under other circumstances.

She's perfect.

Why can't she raise a stink about you blowing her off? As your post shows, an AP has one job and that is to show up. If she's not miffed that you blow her off its probably because she's smart and has another AP.

Because she has to pretend it's just sex and that she doesn't care. She knows I will move on if she starts the drama. She knows I don't care if she screws others, she's married remember. "Your no longer my #3"

Married women that cheat are a specific breed, they think they are feminists but they have the lowest self esteem and have intimacy issues.

I don't want intimacy so it's a perfect fit.

+1 they are usually mentally unstable so watch that !

Anonymous wrote:I don't have to celebrate birthdays or holidays with her. I don't have to take her in public. I don't spend money on her. I can blow her off any time I want and she can't raise a stink about it. We don't have to discuss our future. She believes lies like, I wish we met under other circumstances.

She's perfect.

Yuck. How does she have any respect for herself?

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Anonymous wrote:Does anyone here think the man should be chastised as breaking up a family and destroying a marriage?

You didn't destroy the marriage. It was already dead, or she wouldn't agree to sleep with you. She stopped being attracted to her husband, for whatever reason, and that opened the door for another man to take his place.

My marriage is far from dead. I'm very attracted to my DH. AP is just an escape. Variety. A little naughty to the mundane. Mid life crisis? 17 year itch? Boredom? Whether you're male or female, we all lust after others. Some of us succumb to temptation.

All fun and games until one of you is caught and your spouse and kids face serious trauma from your “escapes”. Grow the fk up

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novaguy wrote:Some men just get off on having sex with married women. It's a conquest. There's also a perception that if she is cheating it's because she is unsatisfied at home and will be that much hotter in bed.

OP here, the funny thing is that my DH keeps me satisfied, no complaints in the bedroom. There is just something hot about having my AP on the side, they are two very different people in the bedroom and I like them both. I am also very high drive and like variety.

Nothing wrong with you at all to be honest. You are just another slutty married woman who doesn't respect herself enough. And that's okay. You should not have to apologize for you are - a slut! And married men who engage in similar nonsense are sluts as well. If I get to a point where I don't want to be with my wife I'll just divorce her and sleep around. I'm not there yet and hope I'll never get there.

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Anonymous wrote:The only married women I have had sex with I had the consent of the husband to do so.

OP here, that is hot! I wish I had the consent of my DH, haha

I would give my DW consent if she asked.

DH gave me permission because he is lower drive but seriously I don’t have the time to hunt down another guy. I just need DH to step it up!

DH in your situation. Wish we could connect!

Are you cute? I am! It’s nice to fantasize but I do not think I could actually do such a thing. Nor would I go anywhere or do anything to suggest I want advances. Which is why DH offered, isn’t it!

We need to bring back the explicit forum

Anonymous wrote:Wow, really people?

The reason men sleep with married women is so that they get sex with no headache and no pushing for commitment. Hello!

That is far and away the biggest reason. So don't kid yourself ladies, it's not because you're a "conquest." Unhappily married women are known to be the easiest lays and most desperate (i.e. require least amount of effort).

Ha. I know. Christ. These women think they are so hot. They are easy. Period.

Some get it in their head they are highly desirable and find out the hard way when they are discovered, tossed out on their @ss and single again.

Duh. Married women he does not have to wine or dine or even text or call much at all. She can’t except fancy gifts or even get away much. He barely has to spend any $.

It’s basically free no-strings sex. And if she gets pissy- there is the threat he can blow up her world.

He can continue dating and wining and dining single women and hitting this married woman who will settle for nothing from him on the side.

It’s not rocket science. lol

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novaguy wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The only married women I have had sex with I had the consent of the husband to do so.

OP here, that is hot! I wish I had the consent of my DH, haha

I would give my DW consent if she asked.

DH gave me permission because he is lower drive but seriously I don’t have the time to hunt down another guy. I just need DH to step it up!

DH in your situation. Wish we could connect!

Anonymous wrote:Maybe he just had a thing for archaeologists who dig up eight year old threads?

Omg, I choked on my coffee.