We waited about 3 months for intercourse. We didn't have sex or sleepovers when my kids were home until we got engaged. No issues with desire (except a couple medication-induced months for me) or capability on the part of either of us and both very satisfied with the other's performance. We just focused on building an emotional connection. Maybe when we're 90, we'll still want to jump each other's bones, but I'd be more upset if we lost our emotional intimacy.

Run. This is the easiest decision on this entire board.

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Anonymous wrote:I think she got very hurt in a prior relationship. Don't listen to a bunch of assholes online. You should talk to her.

More likely she had sex to get pregnant and never had sex after that in that shame she calls a marriage. That is such bullshit...oh I was hurt in this other relationship...I guarantee you that if Christian Ronaldo started hitting on you after being hurt in a prior relationship, you would be in bed with him in about two minutes

Um, no, not Cristiano

I'm over 40, so time officially flies by, and six months don't seem like such a forever. But I agree with those who say she's not your woman, OP.

Anonymous wrote:I find it strange that people think that the sex should have happened by the third date. If this is a relationship that has a potential to turn serious, then the woman is doing right by waiting until this man is properly vetted. Specially since she has a child. The OP sounds idiotic by discussing this with his sister.

It could also be that he is a troll.

I am one of the wives with a robust sex life with her husband who had the cowboy/chafing story. We did not have sex by our third date, however we did have sex by our third month. Six months seems like a long time.

Anonymous wrote:I find it strange that people think that the sex should have happened by the third date. If this is a relationship that has a potential to turn serious, then the woman is doing right by waiting until this man is properly vetted. Specially since she has a child. The OP sounds idiotic by discussing this with his sister.

It could also be that he is a troll.

Sure...if you do not have sex by the third date it's over.