Anonymous wrote:What pool is open now?

Rec centers, gyms, vacation spots.

I'm the overweight frumpy woman with a hot DH. I've never been well put together, not big into fashion and have no idea what to do with any makeup other than eyeliner. I am a good person, I treat other people well, I am hilarious and fun to be around. I've never asked why my DH stays with me. I guess he loves me the way I am. Been together almost 20 years and I think some people would consider us an odd couple by looks alone.

What pool is open now?

Anonymous wrote:Just curious OP, would you have been as curious if it was the opposite a really hot mom and an overweight, balding and badly dressed dad?

Oh, obviously he's with her because she has kept herself up. Duh!

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Anonymous wrote:Pierce Brosnan doesn't mind a little chub.

She is huge.

And she was slim and quite beautiful when they met. Apparently Pierce loved her on the inside too and didn't just fall in love with her pretty packaging, and didn't expect her to stay 25 forever. I'm sure they have made some beautiful memories during their long and loving marriage together. Good for them. If only everyone could experience a love like that...

Anonymous wrote:Pierce Brosnan doesn't mind a little chub.

She is huge.

Just curious OP, would you have been as curious if it was the opposite a really hot mom and an overweight, balding and badly dressed dad?

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Anonymous wrote:Maybe he likes bigger women gasp.

+1

I've met more than one buff guy who likes curvy women. Bless them.

Curvy does not equal overweight and unattractive.

Some guys like fat women. Some HOT guys like fat women. They find fat women attractive. Bless them.

+1 I have a friend who is a very good looking fitness trainer who exclusively dares fate women. Not chubby slightly overweight women but morbidly obese women. It's what he likes. Who cares?

That' concerning there is a huge difference between, bigger, fat and morbidly obese. That a fitness trainer seeks out people he knows to be deathly unhealthy is sick it's the same as if he were seeking out anorexics. Nothing to applaud.

Bye

Truth hurts your friend is sick. That's analogous to an oncologist seeking out relationships with stage 4 patients.

Liking chubby ladies is one thing. Having a fetish for someone who is sick is disturbing.

It might even be different if he settled down with one morbidly obese woman, but you said this is a habit.

What happens to the relationships? Does he ditch them if they start caring about their health and wanting to lose a little weight?

No just happens to be one of his jobs. He's also an animator. Not a fetish jusy his preference the relationships run there course. The last relationship ended after 3 yrs.

Lol

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Anonymous wrote:There is a couple like this at my sons preschool. He is super hot (could be a model) and she is enormous. 400lbs, easy. I don't get it either

It's nothing for you to figure out. It's not your puzzle to crack. It's two different people who have nothing the fuck to do with you.

Get a life, people.

NP here. Stop policing people's interests. I'm interested in people, relationships, psychology...especially when it goes against social norms. You aren't, and that's fine, but it doesn't make you morally superior.

She likely was slim when they met. But pregnancy, age, hormonal fluctuations and metabolic issues have made her heavier than she used to be. Obviously they stick together because their relationship works for them and they have a genuine love for each other.

That's not obvious at all. It's far more likely that she's down on herself, therefore won't put out, therefore he seeks sex elsewhere, but he's sticking it out for the kids. She probably even posts on DCUM about how her DH loves her anyway, mmm-hmm.

Oh, honey. I like sex as much as I like food. And I know what to do with my mouth.

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Anonymous wrote:Nothing pisses off skinny bitches more than a hot guy liking big women.

It's funny seeing the fat asses salivating over the idea that some supermodel prince will fall in love with them.

Nice try, but not even close. We're talking about big women who are with hot guys, not big women who hope that somebody they can be with a hot guy.

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Anonymous wrote:There is a couple like this at my sons preschool. He is super hot (could be a model) and she is enormous. 400lbs, easy. I don't get it either

It's nothing for you to figure out. It's not your puzzle to crack. It's two different people who have nothing the fuck to do with you.

Get a life, people.

NP here. Stop policing people's interests. I'm interested in people, relationships, psychology...especially when it goes against social norms. You aren't, and that's fine, but it doesn't make you morally superior.

She likely was slim when they met. But pregnancy, age, hormonal fluctuations and metabolic issues have made her heavier than she used to be. Obviously they stick together because their relationship works for them and they have a genuine love for each other.

That's not obvious at all. It's far more likely that she's down on herself, therefore won't put out, therefore he seeks sex elsewhere, but he's sticking it out for the kids. She probably even posts on DCUM about how her DH loves her anyway, mmm-hmm.

Looking to nab someone else's leftovers? Because you sure sound like it.

This post makes me sad. Thank god we were not at the pool today or I would be worrying that you were writing about my family. You know what, OP? My DH fell in love with me and married me when I was fat. I later lost a ton of weight and kept it off for years and years. But then after having kids and working full time and going through some really tough issues, I gained a bunch of weight, even more than I weighed prior to my weight loss.

My DH hasn't stopped loving me for a second, through this entire ordeal, years and years together, ups and downs and in-betweens. I feel really sorry for you that you can't wrap your brain around that.

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Anonymous wrote:There is a couple like this at my sons preschool. He is super hot (could be a model) and she is enormous. 400lbs, easy. I don't get it either

It's nothing for you to figure out. It's not your puzzle to crack. It's two different people who have nothing the fuck to do with you.

Get a life, people.

NP here. Stop policing people's interests. I'm interested in people, relationships, psychology...especially when it goes against social norms. You aren't, and that's fine, but it doesn't make you morally superior.

She likely was slim when they met. But pregnancy, age, hormonal fluctuations and metabolic issues have made her heavier than she used to be. Obviously they stick together because their relationship works for them and they have a genuine love for each other.

That's not obvious at all. It's far more likely that she's down on herself, therefore won't put out, therefore he seeks sex elsewhere, but he's sticking it out for the kids. She probably even posts on DCUM about how her DH loves her anyway, mmm-hmm.

We all age and unlovely things happen to our bodies. That is true for everyone. Marry someone you like, that you want to be around and who likes you back - looks are the icing on the cake.