Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Reading the quality men thread and kind of shocked. Why are educated women with means to become economically self sufficient so eager to find a husband/mate? In today's world, an educated woman with a good earning potential doesn't NEED a man to survive or be happy.
Is it the older women on dcum that are still trying to drill old fashioned ideas of dependency on men into younger women's heads?
I find it so backwards and regressive. Let's not stop our young women from living happy independent lives where they can build a nice for themselves with or without a man!
They can't survive without us.
Anonymous wrote:I would say that's true more than women. Men benefit more from marriage. Their happiness goes up during marriage, whereas the opposite happens for women.
Just like men get remarried super fast after divorce, while women dont.
It's just a much better deal for them, and people are starting to catch on.
Their happiness goes up during marriage
Anonymous wrote:
Only to a certain point. Unmarried men in their late 30s or 40s who think they are "having fun" usually come across as pathetic and fooling only themselves.
Anonymous wrote:Reading the quality men thread and kind of shocked. Why are educated women with means to become economically self sufficient so eager to find a husband/mate? In today's world, an educated woman with a good earning potential doesn't NEED a man to survive or be happy.
Is it the older women on dcum that are still trying to drill old fashioned ideas of dependency on men into younger women's heads?
I find it so backwards and regressive. Let's not stop our young women from living happy independent lives where they can build a nice for themselves with or without a man!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I could do without the man on a daily basis but I do need one to fulfill my sexual needs.
Buy a vibrator.
Anonymous wrote:I could do without the man on a daily basis but I do need one to fulfill my sexual needs.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Oprah is a great example of a woman that can have it all. Without marriage. And was challenged in her position about that for YEARS.
Yep.
Oprah doesn't have kids. Therefore, she doesn't have it all.
She has estates all over the worlds and a billion dollars. She definitely has it all.
Only to people who are as materialistic as you are. Hate to tell you, but there are some things money just can't buy.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Oprah is a great example of a woman that can have it all. Without marriage. And was challenged in her position about that for YEARS.
Yep.
Oprah doesn't have kids. Therefore, she doesn't have it all.
She has estates all over the worlds and a billion dollars. She definitely has it all.
Anonymous wrote:There was a funny skit Dave Chapelle did on how it would be if the roles were reversed and he trapped Oprah by getting her pregnant. I'm rich, beach!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have felt sorry for Oprah for such a long time now. What a sad empty life. I heard she even owns a condo in Chicago. What a loser!!
True- I think it's worth a couple mill and located on Miracle Mile. How sad.
Those condos- they're the tell tale sign of a lonely woman stuck with her cats, desperately pining away for a man to come sweep her away. Poor, poor Oprah. If only she could be as lucky as a DCUM poster.
Anonymous wrote:I have felt sorry for Oprah for such a long time now. What a sad empty life. I heard she even owns a condo in Chicago. What a loser!!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Oprah is a great example of a woman that can have it all. Without marriage. And was challenged in her position about that for YEARS.
Yep.
Oprah doesn't have kids. Therefore, she doesn't have it all.
If anyone has the resources to have kids, she does. She didn't want them. Not everyone wants kids.
Jeez.