Anonymous wrote:Men are wired differently to women, as a mother & a woman who was sexually abused as a child I would not feel comfortable with a male teacher toileting or changing my child. I am a teacher who works in a childcare centre, we have a new male teacher who is great & think it’s fabulous what he does with the children but feel strongly that he shouldn’t be changing or taking them to the toilet. It puts me on edge when he is alone in the preschool & feel it is high risk because he is a man. I feel very strongly about it.
You are holding someone innocent responsible for the abuse you suffered.
This is a you problem, but I understand why you would feel this way.