Anonymous
07/21/2015 16:17
Subject: Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I agree cheating is not ideal. HOWEVER, some people cheat because of ongoing abuse in their relationships, or because they're seeking intimacy, friendship, affection, and closeness NOT AVAILABLE TO THEM IN THEIR MARRIAGE. So please stop judging.
Then get a divorce!
WHY?
Anonymous
07/21/2015 16:06
Subject: Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
Anonymous wrote:I agree cheating is not ideal. HOWEVER, some people cheat because of ongoing abuse in their relationships, or because they're seeking intimacy, friendship, affection, and closeness NOT AVAILABLE TO THEM IN THEIR MARRIAGE. So please stop judging.
Then get a divorce!
Anonymous
07/21/2015 15:34
Subject: Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
Anonymous wrote:I hope it's indexed. Not just to find if your spouse is cheating, but also your neighbor, co-worker, employee and kids teacher. Unreal
Oh God, get a life....
Anonymous
07/21/2015 15:27
Subject: Re:Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
Anonymous wrote:+1 . You morality policers can miss me with that "just get a divorce" bullshit. If we are a married couple, committed to being LIFE PARTNERS and otherwise happy,why the hell would we throw all that away because of a meaningless indiscretion? Seriously, "for better or worse" and "till death do us part"means a hell of a lot more to me than" are a whole lot more important to me than "forsaking all others" (which btw, wasn't apart of OUR vows).
Because it's not a meaningless indiscretion. It's a conscious betrayal. And once that trust is broken, so is the marriage. If my spouse betrayed me in this way, it would be over.
Anonymous
07/21/2015 15:08
Subject: Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
Anonymous wrote:It can indeed be "squishy" but by any rational measure cheating is indeed emotionally abusive--unless of course, you are the cheater.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:It is emotional abuse and an abuse of trust. There are all kids of abuse--not just physical.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Cheating is abuse, if you ask me. Lying to someone you "love" and has been devoted to you for 20 years is really horrible. Exposing them to STDs, etc. Risking your professional reputation.
No it's not murder, but it is abuse.
You need to find yourself a dictionary.
And just about anything a person doesn't like can be called "emotional abuse" -- the concept is so, so squishy.
You should read a book on emotional abuse. Like one of Patricia Evans's books. I can give you lots of examples of what real emotional abuse is, some of which almost resulted in my death due to denial of medical care in emergencies. Sorry, but cheating isn't the same in my book. It MAY also confirm the spouse is a narcissistic or borderline personality disordered pig, and it MAY also be accompanied by emotional abuse, but by itself, with nothing more - especially in a case where there was no intimacy in the marriage - it would all depend on why. My H and I had an active intimate life (during which he also degraded me with his words and actions). My H never cheated. He just almost killed me more than once without laying a hand on me, that's all. We are currently separated. Best. Decision. Ever.
Anonymous
07/21/2015 15:06
Subject: Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
I hope it's indexed. Not just to find if your spouse is cheating, but also your neighbor, co-worker, employee and kids teacher. Unreal
Anonymous
07/21/2015 15:04
Subject: Re:Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Who cares? People can explain away their AM accounts by claiming that they were curious or that someone else was using their credit card info.
Anyways, the threshold for shock has been raised so high now that when we see nude pictures of celebrities or their ONS baby bump, or their sex change operation - we are unfazed.
Big Fucking Deal!
Picture and sexy chat data exchanges do add a certain level of doubt to the curiosity explanation.
most of these users have nothing to worry about. This info will be hard to find and can not be posted because of the copyright. There maybe some blackmail value, but that would take place on the dark web.
Yeah right. It's pretty easy to find screen shots of data even after it was taken down. Once it's posted even once- it's out there! You can find the three names, addresses and all right now if you know where to look..
Okay post it here.
Repost illegally breached data? Umm, no thanks. Try doing a simple search for yourself as it's widely published.
Anonymous
07/21/2015 14:35
Subject: Re:Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Who cares? People can explain away their AM accounts by claiming that they were curious or that someone else was using their credit card info.
Anyways, the threshold for shock has been raised so high now that when we see nude pictures of celebrities or their ONS baby bump, or their sex change operation - we are unfazed.
Big Fucking Deal!
Picture and sexy chat data exchanges do add a certain level of doubt to the curiosity explanation.
most of these users have nothing to worry about. This info will be hard to find and can not be posted because of the copyright. There maybe some blackmail value, but that would take place on the dark web.
Yeah right. It's pretty easy to find screen shots of data even after it was taken down. Once it's posted even once- it's out there! You can find the three names, addresses and all right now if you know where to look..
Okay post it here.
Anonymous
07/21/2015 11:52
Subject: Re:Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Who cares? People can explain away their AM accounts by claiming that they were curious or that someone else was using their credit card info.
Anyways, the threshold for shock has been raised so high now that when we see nude pictures of celebrities or their ONS baby bump, or their sex change operation - we are unfazed.
Big Fucking Deal!
Picture and sexy chat data exchanges do add a certain level of doubt to the curiosity explanation.
most of these users have nothing to worry about. This info will be hard to find and can not be posted because of the copyright. There maybe some blackmail value, but that would take place on the dark web.
Yeah right. It's pretty easy to find screen shots of data even after it was taken down. Once it's posted even once- it's out there! You can find the three names, addresses and all right now if you know where to look..
Anonymous
07/21/2015 11:40
Subject: Re:Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Cheating is abuse, if you ask me. Lying to someone you "love" and has been devoted to you for 20 years is really horrible. Exposing them to STDs, etc. Risking your professional reputation.
No it's not murder, but it is abuse.
It is horrible, but it is not abuse. Talk to somebody who is assaulted on a regular basis.
I don't know. I think cheating (at least long term) fits the definition of abuse better than physical assault, IMO. A spouse who has been hit can also end the relationship right away while someone whose been cheated on for 10 years can't leave the relationship until they find out.
If you are in a sexless marriage where the other has checked out that is a form of abuse. It is not abuse to have an affair. Most of the people being cheated on could care less about the act, it just the embarrassment of the thing.
Two wrongs don't make a right.
You don't cheat - you get a divorce.
Life is not black and white, especially when kids are involved.
+1 . You morality policers can miss me with that "just get a divorce" bullshit. If we are a married couple, committed to being LIFE PARTNERS and otherwise happy,why the hell would we throw all that away because of a meaningless indiscretion? Seriously, "for better or worse" and "till death do us part"means a hell of a lot more to me than" are a whole lot more important to me than "forsaking all others" (which btw, wasn't apart of OUR vows).
Anonymous
07/21/2015 11:16
Subject: Re:Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
Anonymous wrote:
Who cares? People can explain away their AM accounts by claiming that they were curious or that someone else was using their credit card info.
Anyways, the threshold for shock has been raised so high now that when we see nude pictures of celebrities or their ONS baby bump, or their sex change operation - we are unfazed.
Big Fucking Deal!
Picture and sexy chat data exchanges do add a certain level of doubt to the curiosity explanation.
most of these users have nothing to worry about. This info will be hard to find and can not be posted because of the copyright. There maybe some blackmail value, but that would take place on the dark web.
Anonymous
07/21/2015 11:04
Subject: Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
This is excellent these people are scum
Anonymous
07/21/2015 11:01
Subject: Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
I am so glad that I didn't have anything to do with AM! Just so everyone knows, any site that you visit can trace your IP address!, INCLUDING THIS ONE! If you think that you are trolling ANON you are incorrect.
Anonymous
07/21/2015 10:32
Subject: Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
Anonymous wrote:Who cares? People can explain away their AM accounts by claiming that they were curious or that someone else was using their credit card info.
Anyways, the threshold for shock has been raised so high now that when we see nude pictures of celebrities or their ONS baby bump, or their sex change operation - we are unfazed.
Big Fucking Deal!
Picture and sexy chat data exchanges do add a certain level of doubt to the curiosity explanation.
Anonymous
07/21/2015 10:22
Subject: Hackers have got all of online adultery site Ashley Madison's data
Who cares? People can explain away their AM accounts by claiming that they were curious or that someone else was using their credit card info.
Anyways, the threshold for shock has been raised so high now that when we see nude pictures of celebrities or their ONS baby bump, or their sex change operation - we are unfazed.
Big Fucking Deal!
Anyways, the threshold for shock has been raised so high now that when we see nude pictures of celebrities or their ONS baby bump, or their sex change operation - we are unfazed.
Big Fucking Deal!