Anonymous wrote:We were there in April but didn't notice any. Had no trouble at all.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I have not been to SF in 10 years. I saw nothing like OP described when I was there. I don't recall seeing a single homeless person.
I agree with PPs that it's not a good idea to give cash to anyone on the street. I've been told over and over again that you are enabling them to stay on the street if you give them cash. Food is OK, but I've had food thrown in my face, so I don't offer food either. I just don't make eye contact and walk quickly away. Most of the cash they collect is going to drugs and alcohol, not food, OP.
I guess no one should be helpful or try to be compassionate anymore. Just walk away.
Anonymous wrote:I have not been to SF in 10 years. I saw nothing like OP described when I was there. I don't recall seeing a single homeless person.
I agree with PPs that it's not a good idea to give cash to anyone on the street. I've been told over and over again that you are enabling them to stay on the street if you give them cash. Food is OK, but I've had food thrown in my face, so I don't offer food either. I just don't make eye contact and walk quickly away. Most of the cash they collect is going to drugs and alcohol, not food, OP.
Anonymous wrote:I have not been to SF in 10 years. I saw nothing like OP described when I was there. I don't recall seeing a single homeless person.
I agree with PPs that it's not a good idea to give cash to anyone on the street. I've been told over and over again that you are enabling them to stay on the street if you give them cash. Food is OK, but I've had food thrown in my face, so I don't offer food either. I just don't make eye contact and walk quickly away. Most of the cash they collect is going to drugs and alcohol, not food, OP.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How stupid are you to actually give money to these people?? Grow a backbone and walk on by!
Why is giving money to someone who appears to be in need stupid? Especially someone with innocent dogs in tow. Why so rude to the OP? I think it is clear that they were not aware that this was a problem in the northwest.
These young adults aren't "in need" because of anything other than a choice. They choose to train hop and beg for money, rather than look for work and housing. They are choosing to be on the streets. Most of them aren't mentally ill and most are well past the age of being runaways or throwaways. They could come in from the streets, they just choose not to. I'll give money to homeless shelters and other organizations but not to them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How stupid are you to actually give money to these people?? Grow a backbone and walk on by!
Why is giving money to someone who appears to be in need stupid? Especially someone with innocent dogs in tow. Why so rude to the OP? I think it is clear that they were not aware that this was a problem in the northwest.
These young adults aren't "in need" because of anything other than a choice. They choose to train hop and beg for money, rather than look for work and housing. They are choosing to be on the streets. Most of them aren't mentally ill and most are well past the age of being runaways or throwaways. They could come in from the streets, they just choose not to. I'll give money to homeless shelters and other organizations but not to them.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why do we always victim shame/blame or judge someone trying to help?
OMG you gave too much, YOU are the problem!
Nobody said OP was "the problem." IMO, she got what she asked for. So no, she's not entitled to feel outraged![]()
Oh do tell, what did she ask for?
Reality check.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How stupid are you to actually give money to these people?? Grow a backbone and walk on by!
Why is giving money to someone who appears to be in need stupid? Especially someone with innocent dogs in tow. Why so rude to the OP? I think it is clear that they were not aware that this was a problem in the northwest.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why do we always victim shame/blame or judge someone trying to help?
OMG you gave too much, YOU are the problem!
Nobody said OP was "the problem." IMO, she got what she asked for. So no, she's not entitled to feel outraged![]()
Oh do tell, what did she ask for?