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Anonymous wrote:So the answer is you're not exactly bright. Got it. Done with you OP. I don't know if you're delusional or if you have something you should seek help for, but there is something off about you. I hope you're able to find happiness in your life without needing the Internet to provide you the attention and companionship you are desperately searching for.

I agree. Something's off. I too have a wealthy family, went to private schools etc - and though I'm older, this just doesn't feeL right. I actually don't doubt op is what she says, but either she's much younger than she claims or she is shockingly naive and/or very dim.

Op, please take the time of this thread as a not so subtle hint that's it's time to move on from this website.

Tone, not time

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Anonymous wrote:So the answer is you're not exactly bright. Got it. Done with you OP. I don't know if you're delusional or if you have something you should seek help for, but there is something off about you. I hope you're able to find happiness in your life without needing the Internet to provide you the attention and companionship you are desperately searching for.

I agree. Something's off. I too have a wealthy family, went to private schools etc - and though I'm older, this just doesn't feeL right. I actually don't doubt op is what she says, but either she's much younger than she claims or she is shockingly naive and/or very dim.

Op, please take the time of this thread as a not so subtle hint that's it's time to move on from this website.

Anonymous wrote:So the answer is you're not exactly bright. Got it. Done with you OP. I don't know if you're delusional or if you have something you should seek help for, but there is something off about you. I hope you're able to find happiness in your life without needing the Internet to provide you the attention and companionship you are desperately searching for.

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Anonymous wrote:Where is your family from originally. I have always pictured you with a slight eastern European accent. The wealthy/vineyard things throws a whole new angle on things.

Are you an only child?

OP here: My family is from Rhode Island although my grandparents are from Sicily if that matters at all. I'm not an only child, I have two younger siblings.

Funny, I was going to ask if the family wealth was from the "construction" business. I am assuming yes. That explains a lot!

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Anonymous wrote:Where is your family from originally. I have always pictured you with a slight eastern European accent. The wealthy/vineyard things throws a whole new angle on things.

Are you an only child?

OP here: My family is from Rhode Island although my grandparents are from Sicily if that matters at all. I'm not an only child, I have two younger siblings.

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Anonymous wrote:So the answer is you're not exactly bright. Got it. Done with you OP. I don't know if you're delusional or if you have something you should seek help for, but there is something off about you. I hope you're able to find happiness in your life without needing the Internet to provide you the attention and companionship you are desperately searching for.

Op here: thanks so much! I really appreciate what a random person on the Internet has to say about me. Thanks again!

Anonymous wrote:So the answer is you're not exactly bright. Got it. Done with you OP. I don't know if you're delusional or if you have something you should seek help for, but there is something off about you. I hope you're able to find happiness in your life without needing the Internet to provide you the attention and companionship you are desperately searching for.

Anonymous wrote:So did your ex-boyfriend and/or his uncle find out about the thread?

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Anonymous wrote:Op, you seem nice but incredibly naive and far too trusting. You should NEVER give your number to someone you've met online before yoU even know what state they are in! Please do some work on yourself before you end up trusting the wrong guy and your parents are the ones calling the cops because they can't locate you.

Op here: I did not say that I didn't know what state he lived in. I said that I didn't realize how far away he actually was. There are parts of New York that are 2 hours from me, I didn't know he was 4 hours away in New York.

Also, I have many friends who have online dated and they all started out by messaging back and forth and then exchanging numbers before they actually met.

Now you're being dense on purpose. You didn't know what town he lived in before giving out your number. It's still STUPID to give out info like that when you know so little about someone. DH and I also texted before met in person. But I certainly knew where he lived. I can't tell if you're pulling one on us, really this naive, or are just dumb, but please be safer when meeting strangers. You are the exact type of person who is ripe for being sought up by the creeps of the world.

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Anonymous wrote:Op, you seem nice but incredibly naive and far too trusting. You should NEVER give your number to someone you've met online before yoU even know what state they are in! Please do some work on yourself before you end up trusting the wrong guy and your parents are the ones calling the cops because they can't locate you.

Op here: I did not say that I didn't know what state he lived in. I said that I didn't realize how far away he actually was. There are parts of New York that are 2 hours from me, I didn't know he was 4 hours away in New York.

Also, I have many friends who have online dated and they all started out by messaging back and forth and then exchanging numbers before they actually met.