Anonymous wrote:I love that many of these complaints are coming from people who seem not to have children in an independent school.
You don't need to look up a school's 990 to know its budget (though it is fun to look at how much the head is paid). Just email the board chair and ask for the approved budget. Chances are they would be really interested in a conversation about what is driving up tuition.
I think we are the typical of full tuition paying independent school families in the Washington area. Ten years ago, I was middle management when my child started in JK. Tuition felt like a big stretch. Since then I moved from public service to the private sector and worked my way up the ladder to become a senior executive. My attorney spouse made partner. So over the course of 10 years, our income has grown several multiples (mostly) as a result of seniority and normal career progression. Tuition just isn't an issue now.
If you divorce, don't make partner, switch back to government or a nonprofit, this income arc may be impossible. But, I really think this my experience is representative of the vast majority of independent school families. There are still lots of us and our children's education is a completely guilt-free luxury we're happy to indulge.

Anonymous wrote:I love that many of these complaints are coming from people who seem not to have children in an independent school.
You don't need to look up a school's 990 to know its budget (though it is fun to look at how much the head is paid). Just email the board chair and ask for the approved budget. Chances are they would be really interested in a conversation about what is driving up tuition.
I think we are the typical of full tuition paying independent school families in the Washington area. Ten years ago, I was middle management when my child started in JK. Tuition felt like a big stretch. Since then I moved from public service to the private sector and worked my way up the ladder to become a senior executive. My attorney spouse made partner. So over the course of 10 years, our income has grown several multiples (mostly) as a result of seniority and normal career progression. Tuition just isn't an issue now.
If you divorce, don't make partner, switch back to government or a nonprofit, this income arc may be impossible. But, I really think this my experience is representative of the vast majority of independent school families. There are still lots of us and our children's education is a completely guilt-free luxury we're happy to indulge.
Anonymous wrote:I love that many of these complaints are coming from people who seem not to have children in an independent school.
You don't need to look up a school's 990 to know its budget (though it is fun to look at how much the head is paid). Just email the board chair and ask for the approved budget. Chances are they would be really interested in a conversation about what is driving up tuition.
I think we are the typical of full tuition paying independent school families in the Washington area. Ten years ago, I was middle management when my child started in JK. Tuition felt like a big stretch. Since then I moved from public service to the private sector and worked my way up the ladder to become a senior executive. My attorney spouse made partner. So over the course of 10 years, our income has grown several multiples (mostly) as a result of seniority and normal career progression. Tuition just isn't an issue now.
If you divorce, don't make partner, switch back to government or a nonprofit, this income arc may be impossible. But, I really think this my experience is representative of the vast majority of independent school families. There are still lots of us and our children's education is a completely guilt-free luxury we're happy to indulge.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:So if I have a child entering kindergarten at a school where tuition is 30,000 a year then 13 years later if the tuition increases by 4% a year I would be paying 50,000. Wow!
To the patents who have kids who are junior and seniors. How much is your tuition now compared to how much you paid 5 years ago in 7th grade and how much was tuition for kinder if you are at the same school?
DC in Pre-K in 2007 : Tuition was 24K
2015 DC is in 6th grade : near 40K
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Does anyone here have transparency into the budgeting of these schools? Do we actually know what is driving the price up? Is it facilities or simply healthcare? Is it because they now need a computer and IT department they didn't need 20 years ago?
They have to file publicly . Is it called a 1099? I forget the name ( its the form non-profits have to file) It gives the breakdown on what they spend on everything
Anonymous wrote:So if I have a child entering kindergarten at a school where tuition is 30,000 a year then 13 years later if the tuition increases by 4% a year I would be paying 50,000. Wow!
To the patents who have kids who are junior and seniors. How much is your tuition now compared to how much you paid 5 years ago in 7th grade and how much was tuition for kinder if you are at the same school?
Anonymous wrote:Does anyone here have transparency into the budgeting of these schools? Do we actually know what is driving the price up? Is it facilities or simply healthcare? Is it because they now need a computer and IT department they didn't need 20 years ago?