Incognita
Post 12/22/2014 22:22     Subject: Re:My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wait a minute!

Where do you guys live? Cause I hooked up with a married guy twice this week, and we were out till after 1:30. He lied and told me he was separated at first. Then he admitted to being married. He left home late both nights. I asked what story he used to get and stay out so late. The gym , huh?


Is your name Raynella?


Close. But I gave married guy a different name.

Raynella? Really? Is that the slut's name?



Slut? Didn't you just say you are fucking a married man? Lol I'm confused.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 22:19     Subject: Re:My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wait a minute!

Where do you guys live? Cause I hooked up with a married guy twice this week, and we were out till after 1:30. He lied and told me he was separated at first. Then he admitted to being married. He left home late both nights. I asked what story he used to get and stay out so late. The gym , huh?


Is your name Raynella?


Close. But I gave married guy a different name.

Raynella? Really? Is that the slut's name?
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 22:18     Subject: My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Because he met her out with her friends for drinks. He walked her to her car and kissed her. My DH doesn't drink. He told me he had met her previously and given her his number and they started texting. He told me he told her he was separated. Yesterday he told me she was married and was helping her through a rough time (when i called him out on all the texts--that i saw on VZ-not on his phone) and today he told me that was a lie. She's single and just thought he was a catch. I dont think they had sex but that really is besides the point with this story.


The lies are building already. I'm sorry, OP.


He needs to come clean and be perfectly honest if this marriage is to stand a chance.

He's lucky OP is his wife. Cause I would've fucked TWO different guys by now. That lying fucker!
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 22:18     Subject: My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Incognita wrote:Yeah this thread is going nowhere, OP is feeding herself his lies. This is going to be an easy one for him, and he'll be seeing that woman in about a week or two after OP blinds herself.


I doubt he will wait that long.

OP, open your eyes now. He's cheating, and has no problem lying about it. If you want to work on the marriage that's up to you, but you need to be honest with yourself first or you won't get anywhere.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 22:17     Subject: Re:My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Anonymous wrote:Wait a minute!

Where do you guys live? Cause I hooked up with a married guy twice this week, and we were out till after 1:30. He lied and told me he was separated at first. Then he admitted to being married. He left home late both nights. I asked what story he used to get and stay out so late. The gym , huh?


Is your name Raynella?
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 22:15     Subject: Re:My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wait a minute!

Where do you guys live? Cause I hooked up with a married guy twice this week, and we were out till after 1:30. He lied and told me he was separated at first. Then he admitted to being married. He left home late both nights. I asked what story he used to get and stay out so late. The gym , huh?


She said she lives McLean.


Then I seriously doubt it's him. Then again, I dunno where he lives . It was a craigslist hook-up. He claimed to live in the same town I do. I was suspicious when he got hotel rooms so close to the neighborhood he claimed to live in. (Then again, he wasn't expecting DW to go out after 11 pm).

I'm now a bit suspicious because I reached out to him about hooking up again this evening snd he hasn't responded. That's not like him.

But I digress. I'm almost certain these are different people.

Forgive me, all.

Carry on.
Incognita
Post 12/22/2014 22:13     Subject: My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Yeah this thread is going nowhere, OP is feeding herself his lies. This is going to be an easy one for him, and he'll be seeing that woman in about a week or two after OP blinds herself.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 22:11     Subject: My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Anonymous wrote:Because he met her out with her friends for drinks. He walked her to her car and kissed her. My DH doesn't drink. He told me he had met her previously and given her his number and they started texting. He told me he told her he was separated. Yesterday he told me she was married and was helping her through a rough time (when i called him out on all the texts--that i saw on VZ-not on his phone) and today he told me that was a lie. She's single and just thought he was a catch. I dont think they had sex but that really is besides the point with this story.


The lies are building already. I'm sorry, OP.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 22:06     Subject: My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a skeezeball. Sorry OP, I think meeting a divorce attorney would be appropriate.


quick to judge. Divorce attorney, yes. Sleezeball, I wouldn't be so quick to judge with so LITTLE information. Women. Always think they are always right.

Let me put it this way, you would not have the same visceral feeling if it were a woman who kissed another man while at the "gym." You'd probably still side with the woman.



Stop painting all women with the same brush. It's beyond old.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 22:04     Subject: My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Anonymous wrote:He sounds like a skeezeball. Sorry OP, I think meeting a divorce attorney would be appropriate.


quick to judge. Divorce attorney, yes. Sleezeball, I wouldn't be so quick to judge with so LITTLE information. Women. Always think they are always right.

Let me put it this way, you would not have the same visceral feeling if it were a woman who kissed another man while at the "gym." You'd probably still side with the woman.

Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 22:03     Subject: Re:My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Anonymous wrote:Wait a minute!

Where do you guys live? Cause I hooked up with a married guy twice this week, and we were out till after 1:30. He lied and told me he was separated at first. Then he admitted to being married. He left home late both nights. I asked what story he used to get and stay out so late. The gym , huh?


She said she lives McLean.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 21:52     Subject: Re:My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wait a minute!

Where do you guys live? Cause I hooked up with a married guy twice this week, and we were out till after 1:30. He lied and told me he was separated at first. Then he admitted to being married. He left home late both nights. I asked what story he used to get and stay out so late. The gym , huh?

It isn't you.


Clearly it isn't because there was no talk of being busted by the wife.

Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 21:50     Subject: Re:My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Anonymous wrote:Wait a minute!

Where do you guys live? Cause I hooked up with a married guy twice this week, and we were out till after 1:30. He lied and told me he was separated at first. Then he admitted to being married. He left home late both nights. I asked what story he used to get and stay out so late. The gym , huh?

It isn't you.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 21:50     Subject: My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It depends if OP's DH is alpha.

If he is, OP has more incentive to stay.

If not, then she won't.


Lol. You MRAs are so sad.


I would say a good 30-35% of women on this board usually agree with me.

Imagine if HRC posted on DCUM 20 years ago....posters would be like "leave him!"

and she wouldn't.

Because BC is the most alpha guy on the planet.

Look at Huma and AW.

It's funny because I think compared to any other town in the country, this one consistently shows this dynamic at work - again and again and again.

So my advice to guys is - don't cheat or step out on your wife (loyalty and supportiveness are the two biggest keys in my book to a long and healthy relationship).

BUT if you want to/do, make sure your value is so high that your wife won't leave you because she knows instinctively that she will never land a guy ever again at your level.

It is less about condoning any actions of people but more of exposing the truths.


Unfortunately PP speaks the truth.



I don't know what it is about DC, but compared to Boston, NYC, SF, or LA I think women here give their men a pass more. I really do. You can't compare it to small town fly over country where a woman might economically need to give a man a pass but I think DC is the worst compared to peer cities in terms of women giving men passes.
Anonymous
Post 12/22/2014 21:49     Subject: Re:My DH left the house to meet a girl...
Wait a minute!

Where do you guys live? Cause I hooked up with a married guy twice this week, and we were out till after 1:30. He lied and told me he was separated at first. Then he admitted to being married. He left home late both nights. I asked what story he used to get and stay out so late. The gym , huh?