Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:guy here - NO WAY. you haven't told him that you slept with the guys he thinks are only friends. and you can't tell him now - it's way to late to come clean and it will not come off (to him) good at all.
Just invite them and say nothing.
nothing like starting a new life with a spouse blind to deception...and deceived at the goddamn wedding no less!
That's why I'm feeling really bad. I don't want deception at the wedding. It's just that early on when we discussed about our relationships and exes I just didn't mention guys who were not really relationships. I figured out that my fiance wasn't as active as I was before we met. He's a traditional man which is something I love about him because he treats better than anyone before him. He's also a bit sensitive though about what I did tell him so I figured why complicate things by telling even more.
Then don't tell him. You should have been honest from the start, but that ship has sailed, and it doesn't sound line it will go over well anyway. You don't have to invite these guys to your wedding, you can just say there are others you are closer to...or invite them and don't say anything. At this point it's ancient history, right?