Anonymous wrote:It's absolutely fine to forbid it. Find fun alternatives that don't involve a screen. And in general: to all you parents limiting screen time for children as much as humanly possible...you have my deep respect. Children do not need technology. They need to play with real people, go outside, run, explore, be healthy etc. Screens are anything BUT healthy so stay away from them as long as you possibly can.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I realized that the boys/men who played video games all day were pathetic - ultimately it helped me weed out the kind of man I wanted to marry.
A little condescending aren't we?
I grew up in the Atari, Intellivision, and Nintendo and early PC gaming era. Playing games encouraged my interest in computers which has carried over to my professional life. I remember buying a Sound Blaster sound card for my parent's computer so I could have decent sound for my games. I saved my money, bought it, and installed it all on my own. When I was old enough I joined the USAF and spent 9 years in the service doing computer work. Now I do computer work for a govt contractor and make a very nice living to provide for my family. There is not a doubt in my mind that the interest in computers came from that first Atari 2600 that my grandparents bought for me and the Commodore VIC 20 that I'd spend a whole afternoon typing in code just to see a `O' fly around the screen. Interest in games if handled properly can be guided to become an interest in how computers work. My 9 year old LOVES Minecraft so much that we've decorated his room with that theme. However, I've guided his interest into creating his own games using SCRATCH, a programming language created by MIT to teach kids to understand programming logic. Kids that don't have that exposure to how computers work are going to be at a disadvantage to kids who do. It is up to parents to guide an interest in video games into something constructive rather than outright denying it.
http://scratch.mit.edu/
No, it's not condescending. I would imagine you are the exception and not the rule. For every 100 guys who sat and played video games through their college and young adult years, maybe there are one or two who wound up getting creatively/intelligently involved with computers like you have.
And, of course, the situation we have today is much much worse because a child has to be motivated (or have deeply motivated parents) to take "screen time" to the next level (ie, coding or developing). Everything revolves around screens, communication, leisure time, etc., and our kids are going to be challenged to get their noses out of their devices and have real relationships and interests. Obviously your kid sounds like he is going to be an exception, too. I guess you get a pass.
Anonymous wrote:Thanks for the scratch.mit.edu
Any more fun coding games.
Anonymous wrote:Hey judgmental poster who think video games are ror pathetic people.
My brother earnee and bought an old commador computer and spent hours on it plyaing tetris and teaching himself code (sounds like the guy above).
Now as a 40 something, he works doing project design and managing teams of engineers. He doesn't have a degree but he is very valuable to companies for his practical knowlege and his ability to figure out systems from the inside out.
He credits his screentime on that old computer from his elementary and middle school years for giving him the foundational skills to be so successful, even though he does not have any advanced degrees.
Anonymous wrote:Oh good. My 7 year old is taking a video game creation camp this summer with Scratch. I feel kids need to learn code the way my generation needed to learn typing. If it takes video games to get him there, so be it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I realized that the boys/men who played video games all day were pathetic - ultimately it helped me weed out the kind of man I wanted to marry.
A little condescending aren't we?
I grew up in the Atari, Intellivision, and Nintendo and early PC gaming era. Playing games encouraged my interest in computers which has carried over to my professional life. I remember buying a Sound Blaster sound card for my parent's computer so I could have decent sound for my games. I saved my money, bought it, and installed it all on my own. When I was old enough I joined the USAF and spent 9 years in the service doing computer work. Now I do computer work for a govt contractor and make a very nice living to provide for my family. There is not a doubt in my mind that the interest in computers came from that first Atari 2600 that my grandparents bought for me and the Commodore VIC 20 that I'd spend a whole afternoon typing in code just to see a `O' fly around the screen. Interest in games if handled properly can be guided to become an interest in how computers work. My 9 year old LOVES Minecraft so much that we've decorated his room with that theme. However, I've guided his interest into creating his own games using SCRATCH, a programming language created by MIT to teach kids to understand programming logic. Kids that don't have that exposure to how computers work are going to be at a disadvantage to kids who do. It is up to parents to guide an interest in video games into something constructive rather than outright denying it.
http://scratch.mit.edu/
Oh good. My 7 year old is taking a video game creation camp this summer with Scratch. I feel kids need to learn code the way my generation needed to learn typing. If it takes video games to get him there, so be it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I realized that the boys/men who played video games all day were pathetic - ultimately it helped me weed out the kind of man I wanted to marry.
A little condescending aren't we?
I grew up in the Atari, Intellivision, and Nintendo and early PC gaming era. Playing games encouraged my interest in computers which has carried over to my professional life. I remember buying a Sound Blaster sound card for my parent's computer so I could have decent sound for my games. I saved my money, bought it, and installed it all on my own. When I was old enough I joined the USAF and spent 9 years in the service doing computer work. Now I do computer work for a govt contractor and make a very nice living to provide for my family. There is not a doubt in my mind that the interest in computers came from that first Atari 2600 that my grandparents bought for me and the Commodore VIC 20 that I'd spend a whole afternoon typing in code just to see a `O' fly around the screen. Interest in games if handled properly can be guided to become an interest in how computers work. My 9 year old LOVES Minecraft so much that we've decorated his room with that theme. However, I've guided his interest into creating his own games using SCRATCH, a programming language created by MIT to teach kids to understand programming logic. Kids that don't have that exposure to how computers work are going to be at a disadvantage to kids who do. It is up to parents to guide an interest in video games into something constructive rather than outright denying it.
http://scratch.mit.edu/
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My middle schoolers don't play it and never have. They're very involved in real (not virtual) activities, get great grades, and have lots of good friends.
Sadly, it sounds like we're in the minority.
I'm the PP from above who said my kids want to be Amish. Yes, I think we are totally in the minority. However, I remember growing up in the era of pacman and atari, and we were pretty much the only family who didn't have it or play video games at home. As I got older, I realized that the boys/men who played video games all day were pathetic - ultimately it helped me weed out the kind of man I wanted to marry. I think that experience (dating guys who wasted tons of time on games) shaped how I wanted my own kids to be raised. These kids today who use screens to entertain themselves for hours a day are probably going to turn into adults who need/want screens to entertain themselves for hours a day. Screen time in all its various forms is extremely addictive; I think we all know that! So it's a crappy thing to do to your kid, but I get it. In many cases it is easier to parent if you let your kids use video games and other electronics. Anyway, as I said in my other post, we don't actually flat out forbid the use of minecraft or other games; it's just that we would never provide it at home and in general don't spend time with families or other kids who have electronic games.
Anonymous wrote:My middle schoolers don't play it and never have. They're very involved in real (not virtual) activities, get great grades, and have lots of good friends.
Sadly, it sounds like we're in the minority.