Anonymous
12/27/2013 20:24
Subject: Re:I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How did you deal with periods and onset of puberty in general? That's when moms are priceless
I would put tampons on the shopping list. In spring of sixth grade when everyone else was getting bras one of my dads took me to a lingerie shop and got me some too. When I asked to shave my legs, one of them sat on the edge of the bathtub with me walked me through it. I think they gave me deodorant for Christmas one year, and then I just put that on the shopping list as needed also. They really just ... dealt.
This is a lot more than my mom did for me.
Anonymous
12/27/2013 19:59
Subject: I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Are your fathers rich?
Anonymous
12/27/2013 18:39
Subject: I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Are your dating relationships generally healthy, or do you get involved with really needy types and give too much of yourself to them? I only ask b/c my cousin with 2 dads does this, and I wonder why she thinks so little of herself & lets guys take advantage of her kindness.
Anonymous
12/27/2013 18:35
Subject: I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How did they teach you how to wear a tampon? Sorry I'm extremely curious. My mom never worn one and she had the hardest time trying to help me. We laugh nowadays when we remember that day. We were like two teens trying to do something naughty.
There's a diagram with instructions that comes in the box if you buy Playtex, so I just looked at that and did it. It wasn't some huge hurdle or anything. All my dad told me was that if I could feel it, then it was in wrong and to try again with a new one, and not to forget to take it out.
20 years late lol
Thanks.
How did they help you with body image matters?
Dunno. Not sure they ever sat down to specifically formulate a plan regarding body image in young women. We were super active, and they raised me to be a foodie.
Anonymous
12/27/2013 18:35
Subject: I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Anonymous wrote:How did they teach you how to wear a tampon? Sorry I'm extremely curious. My mom never worn one and she had the hardest time trying to help me. We laugh nowadays when we remember that day. We were like two teens trying to do something naughty.
Not OP, but my mom never had to help me figure out how to use one. I just read the directions and that was that. I would have been mortified if she had tried to teach me in any more detail! I had no idea there was an expectation that moms did that kind of thing!
Anonymous
12/27/2013 17:54
Subject: I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:How did they teach you how to wear a tampon? Sorry I'm extremely curious. My mom never worn one and she had the hardest time trying to help me. We laugh nowadays when we remember that day. We were like two teens trying to do something naughty.
There's a diagram with instructions that comes in the box if you buy Playtex, so I just looked at that and did it. It wasn't some huge hurdle or anything. All my dad told me was that if I could feel it, then it was in wrong and to try again with a new one, and not to forget to take it out.
20 years late lol
Thanks.
How did they help you with body image matters?
Anonymous
12/27/2013 17:39
Subject: I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Anonymous wrote:How did they teach you how to wear a tampon? Sorry I'm extremely curious. My mom never worn one and she had the hardest time trying to help me. We laugh nowadays when we remember that day. We were like two teens trying to do something naughty.
There's a diagram with instructions that comes in the box if you buy Playtex, so I just looked at that and did it. It wasn't some huge hurdle or anything. All my dad told me was that if I could feel it, then it was in wrong and to try again with a new one, and not to forget to take it out.
Anonymous
12/27/2013 17:08
Subject: I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
How did they teach you how to wear a tampon? Sorry I'm extremely curious. My mom never worn one and she had the hardest time trying to help me. We laugh nowadays when we remember that day. We were like two teens trying to do something naughty.
Anonymous
12/27/2013 16:20
Subject: I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Anonymous wrote:Was it difficult for your dads to adopt you back then? What kind of logistical hoops (if any) did they have to jump through?
They knew someone who knew someone (my birth mother) who was pregnant. They didn't go through an agency, which cut down on wait time, costs and hoops to jump through.
Anonymous
12/27/2013 15:18
Subject: I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Was it difficult for your dads to adopt you back then? What kind of logistical hoops (if any) did they have to jump through?
Anonymous
12/27/2013 15:14
Subject: Re:I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Anonymous wrote:How did you deal with periods and onset of puberty in general? That's when moms are priceless
NP. I was raised by a mom + dad, but my mom was mentally ill and not at all priceless where womens issue came in. My day's the one who took me bra shopping and bought pads. He didnt know how to talk to me about puberty so he made a doctors appointment and dropped me off. He tried. Point is, sometimes the female in a girl's life isn't much of a role model at all.
Anonymous
12/27/2013 15:09
Subject: I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Anonymous wrote:If you watch Modern Family, what do you think of Cam and Mitchell?
I don't watch, though I know those are the gay guys who adopted Lily.
Anonymous
12/27/2013 15:08
Subject: Re:I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Anonymous wrote:How did you deal with periods and onset of puberty in general? That's when moms are priceless
I would put tampons on the shopping list. In spring of sixth grade when everyone else was getting bras one of my dads took me to a lingerie shop and got me some too. When I asked to shave my legs, one of them sat on the edge of the bathtub with me walked me through it. I think they gave me deodorant for Christmas one year, and then I just put that on the shopping list as needed also. They really just ... dealt.
Anonymous
12/27/2013 15:05
Subject: Re:I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
Great thread, thanks for starting it OP!!
Anonymous
12/27/2013 14:51
Subject: I was raised by two gay dads. Ask me anything
If you watch Modern Family, what do you think of Cam and Mitchell?