rAnonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:As the mother of a child with Aspergers, I'm trying not to be offended. You may be right, maybe our kids are the pariahs who can never be accepted. But how can I not react to this accepting, jokey reference to the fact that the schools must make sure they aren't accidentally letting in one of them. Them being my son (who is not only very intelligent, but also well-behaved and does have an awfully full life). Its no wonder I see so many parents of kids with Aspergers treat it like a shameful secret.
THANK YOU!!! My son has Asperger's and he is the most amazingly involved child on the planet. He is so focused on his extracurriculars -- maybe just because of his personality, but I think also because of the AS -- he will be amazing at several different things by the time he is in 8th grade. He's only in 2nd grade and he already is well on his way to this kind of greatness. He's also quite smart and obsessed with things that other people don't really want to hear about, but people do have to understand that AS is a social disability, but doesn't preclude a kid from being extremely well-rounded. Yes, his friends are better able to navigate the social world and we work hard on that, but I am very proud of what he overcomes and how much he accomplishes at such a young age. You would be proud to have him as your son as well. Asperger's is a disability not a badge of dishonor. Shame on the other poster.
Anonymous wrote:For second tier schools, what % on the SSAT would be acceptable? Assume an interesting, extroverted kid with diversity in her favor, excellent recommendations. Report cards are a weird format at her school (Montessori) so I'm not sure they would matter that much. They are fine though.
Anonymous wrote:A question the schools would ask is, has his previous schooling prepared him for the very competitive academics at some DC privates? It sounds like maybe his previous school wasn't in DC, as you mention that you've lived here for about a year only. So you might check into how his academic profile (where is he in math, what has he read in English) matches up against the grades he would be entering.[/quote
Great point. Here is what I do know. The school he is in now is not challenging him at all. It is a bit frustrating. I am giving him extra assignments at home. Where we lived prior to this year he came home every nite swamped with so much to do. I am not sure about how much this will set him back. I don't wanna change him now because he will be in 8th grade next year. To sum it all up he is not being challenged right now. He may look excellent on paper but the truth is he has not developed the study skills we feel he needs. Do you think we should press forward in getting him to the challenging curriculum he deserves or try to find a school that is on a similar level as his junior high school? I am sort of leaning towards getting him out in the deep. I think he can swim.
Anonymous wrote:PP, you should also check out Landon. It's not in DC, but not that much of a commute, and might be a good place for your son.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Financial aid, maybe. They don't give academic scholarships. -- parent of 99th SSAT percentile (overall) kid who got waitlisted at Sidwell.
Once your kid gets past the 95th percentile, I don't think additional percentages matter. They do look at the whole child, and in one case we've seen, at the (wealthy) parents too, in order to reach down into the 70th percentiles for SSATs. We know the wealthy family in question.
Perhaps you know better, but the kid might have brought something to the table besides rich parents. I know of one kid who got into Sidwell with very scattered SSATs, and professional parents with no prospects for large donations. But the kid had excellent grades, a slew of interests, and was very talented artistically. It's not all about money (or connections).
Anonymous wrote:As the mother of a child with Aspergers, I'm trying not to be offended. You may be right, maybe our kids are the pariahs who can never be accepted. But how can I not react to this accepting, jokey reference to the fact that the schools must make sure they aren't accidentally letting in one of them. Them being my son (who is not only very intelligent, but also well-behaved and does have an awfully full life). Its no wonder I see so many parents of kids with Aspergers treat it like a shameful secret.