Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Young adults these days are in trouble, not just in the US but in Europe, too. They financially and economically cannot "grow up" as fast as their parents did.
I think just reading the news would answer your question, OP.
I agree. I was livid when this was extended because it think it contributes to the problem of extended adolescence we are seeing in young adults. 22 year olds need to grow up and get a job with insurance and not pussy foot around with multiple unpaid internships, travel, and 5 year degrees. I know the economy isn't great for job hunting, but I don't think this helps either. It makes it too easy to slack off and delay growing up to get a real job.
That covers the 1%ers and probably some in the 5% but most people have to work to pay for college and are not doing unpaid internships, travel, etc.
I disagree. I think many young adults who aren't in the 1%-5% category are goofing off because Mom and Dad are subsidizing.
You sound like a bitter cubicle drone, whose career plan consists solely of waiting your aging boss to quit. Yeah, buddy, that's the only thing holding you back.Anonymous wrote:perhaps if old twats actually retired, the young could get on real career-track jobs?
Plenty of data shows that boomers and older people are sticking around longer and longer.
Anonymous wrote:perhaps if old twats actually retired, the young could get on real career-track jobs?
Plenty of data shows that boomers and older people are sticking around longer and longer.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Young adults these days are in trouble, not just in the US but in Europe, too. They financially and economically cannot "grow up" as fast as their parents did.
I think just reading the news would answer your question, OP.
I agree. I was livid when this was extended because it think it contributes to the problem of extended adolescence we are seeing in young adults. 22 year olds need to grow up and get a job with insurance and not pussy foot around with multiple unpaid internships, travel, and 5 year degrees. I know the economy isn't great for job hunting, but I don't think this helps either. It makes it too easy to slack off and delay growing up to get a real job.
Can you tell me, what are the manifestations of the "problem of extended adolescence" in our society? How exactly does it negatively impact society if they have multiple unpaid internships, travel, and five year degrees? It's not like there are jobs that are going unfilled because twenty somethings refuse to work.
Others have written about extended adolescence much better than I can, but the impacts are:
- Delay of marriage, more living together, less stability for kids and communities
- When men are stuck in extended adolescence, women can't find suitable partner to marry and have kids -- not good for society
- Delay of getting "real jobs" which hurts the. This means young adults are delaying saving for their retirement, and that parents are subsidizing their young adult kids instead of putting that money toward other things -- such as their own retirement contributions. It also means Mom and Dad have to work longer to subsidize their kids, which exacerbates the available jobs for the rest of us because the oldest workers delay retiring.
- Delay of buying the first home, which means there are fewer "move up" buyers available when you want to sell your house to a "move up" or first time buyer
- Plain old immaturity, selfishness, and inability to commit to anything whether it's a job, a relationship or a promise to a friend. When selfishness is really bad, it can manifest in crime.
Can you not agree that we have seen a remarkable rise in selfishness in our society over the last few decades? What ever happened to self-sacrifice and commitment to something greater than yourself and your own personal whims? Everything is me, me, me these days, and I don't think that is good for society. Your twenties are a time to get out and work, build a career, find a mate and learn responsibility. They aren't a time to goof off so you can "find yourself." You can find yourself much better while you are out there building a life.
While some of the articles focus on men, this isn't a problem that's limited to men:
http://online.wsj.com/news/articles/SB10001424052748704409004576146321725889448
http://usatoday30.usatoday.com/life/lifestyle/2004-09-30-extended-adolescence_x.htm
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/08/22/magazine/22Adulthood-t.html?pagewanted=all
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Young adults these days are in trouble, not just in the US but in Europe, too. They financially and economically cannot "grow up" as fast as their parents did.
I think just reading the news would answer your question, OP.
I agree. I was livid when this was extended because it think it contributes to the problem of extended adolescence we are seeing in young adults. 22 year olds need to grow up and get a job with insurance and not pussy foot around with multiple unpaid internships, travel, and 5 year degrees. I know the economy isn't great for job hunting, but I don't think this helps either. It makes it too easy to slack off and delay growing up to get a real job.
That covers the 1%ers and probably some in the 5% but most people have to work to pay for college and are not doing unpaid internships, travel, etc.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Young adults these days are in trouble, not just in the US but in Europe, too. They financially and economically cannot "grow up" as fast as their parents did.
I think just reading the news would answer your question, OP.
I agree. I was livid when this was extended because it think it contributes to the problem of extended adolescence we are seeing in young adults. 22 year olds need to grow up and get a job with insurance and not pussy foot around with multiple unpaid internships, travel, and 5 year degrees. I know the economy isn't great for job hunting, but I don't think this helps either. It makes it too easy to slack off and delay growing up to get a real job.
Can you tell me, what are the manifestations of the "problem of extended adolescence" in our society? How exactly does it negatively impact society if they have multiple unpaid internships, travel, and five year degrees? It's not like there are jobs that are going unfilled because twenty somethings refuse to work.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Young adults these days are in trouble, not just in the US but in Europe, too. They financially and economically cannot "grow up" as fast as their parents did.
I think just reading the news would answer your question, OP.
I agree. I was livid when this was extended because it think it contributes to the problem of extended adolescence we are seeing in young adults. 22 year olds need to grow up and get a job with insurance and not pussy foot around with multiple unpaid internships, travel, and 5 year degrees. I know the economy isn't great for job hunting, but I don't think this helps either. It makes it too easy to slack off and delay growing up to get a real job.
That covers the 1%ers and probably some in the 5% but most people have to work to pay for college and are not doing unpaid internships, travel, etc.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Young adults these days are in trouble, not just in the US but in Europe, too. They financially and economically cannot "grow up" as fast as their parents did.
I think just reading the news would answer your question, OP.
I agree. I was livid when this was extended because it think it contributes to the problem of extended adolescence we are seeing in young adults. 22 year olds need to grow up and get a job with insurance and not pussy foot around with multiple unpaid internships, travel, and 5 year degrees. I know the economy isn't great for job hunting, but I don't think this helps either. It makes it too easy to slack off and delay growing up to get a real job.
Anonymous wrote:I think that's up to these families to decide. We shouldn't write healthcare policy in order to teach a parenting lesson.Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Young adults these days are in trouble, not just in the US but in Europe, too. They financially and economically cannot "grow up" as fast as their parents did.
I think just reading the news would answer your question, OP.
I agree. I was livid when this was extended because it think it contributes to the problem of extended adolescence we are seeing in young adults. 22 year olds need to grow up and get a job with insurance and not pussy foot around with multiple unpaid internships, travel, and 5 year degrees. I know the economy isn't great for job hunting, but I don't think this helps either. It makes it too easy to slack off and delay growing up to get a real job.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Young adults these days are in trouble, not just in the US but in Europe, too. They financially and economically cannot "grow up" as fast as their parents did.
I think just reading the news would answer your question, OP.
I agree. I was livid when this was extended because it think it contributes to the problem of extended adolescence we are seeing in young adults. 22 year olds need to grow up and get a job with insurance and not pussy foot around with multiple unpaid internships, travel, and 5 year degrees. I know the economy isn't great for job hunting, but I don't think this helps either. It makes it too easy to slack off and delay growing up to get a real job.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I don't understand why 26 year olds OR ANY FAMILY MEMBER shouldn't be covered under one individual's plan. It's not like it's one price for as many people as you can claim a relationship to. You pay a premium for each additional insured. Those premiums vary based on the age of the insured. Why can't I have my parents on my plan? Why not my sister? I'm paying the premium, I'm not getting anything for free.
That's where you're mistaken. As a PP explained above, many insurances (all I've ever seen offered by my employers) are offered as self, self +1, or family. When family is selected, you pay one price whether you have two children or ten. It's not additional money per child. So in essence, you would be getting a lot for free if you could add extended family for nothing.