Anonymous
Post 10/12/2013 09:36     Subject: If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am 36 and pregnant with my second - but the age gap will be EIGHT years! Do I win biggest age gap?


8 years is not an extreme age gap to me.


well, unfortunately, I also miscarried like the poster above here. So the age gap grows ever wider

So so sorry. We have a 10 yr age gap and it's working out great so don't let the gap deter you! Good luck to you.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2013 09:32     Subject: If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am 36 and pregnant with my second - but the age gap will be EIGHT years! Do I win biggest age gap?


8 years is not an extreme age gap to me.


well, unfortunately, I also miscarried like the poster above here. So the age gap grows ever wider
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2013 04:10     Subject: If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

42 and just had my third. Others are 8 and 11.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2013 00:45     Subject: If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

Anonymous wrote:I am 36 and pregnant with my second - but the age gap will be EIGHT years! Do I win biggest age gap?


8 years is not an extreme age gap to me.
Anonymous
Post 10/12/2013 00:08     Subject: If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

Anonymous wrote:Can the 40+ folks add i they used any ART? I'm 41.3 and just had my first miscarriage at 9 weeks


So sorry for your loss. I got pregnant at 40 on my 2nd IVF cycle, but miscarried at 9 weeks as well. Tired of delaying the start of our family, so moved to DE IVF to increase our odds and am pregnant with twins after 1st cycle.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2013 23:19     Subject: If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

Anonymous wrote:Can the 40+ folks add i they used any ART? I'm 41.3 and just had my first miscarriage at 9 weeks


I'm very sorry for your loss. I had miscarriages at 40, went to IVF, then had success with donor egg. It does happen for some 40+ women without intervention, but many do need help.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2013 22:58     Subject: If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

Anonymous wrote:Can the 40+ folks add i they used any ART? I'm 41.3 and just had my first miscarriage at 9 weeks


I'm very sorry.

I used progesterone supplements to address a short luteal phase at 38 and 40. Two healthy kids from those pregnancies. A few chemical pregnancies and one later miscarriage too.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2013 22:57     Subject: If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

41, just had third. May have another if I can.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2013 22:30     Subject: If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

34 pregnant with first. I know I'm not the oldest, but posting anyways
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2013 22:26     Subject: Re:If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

42. My kids are 6 and 9.
Anonymous
Post 10/11/2013 20:32     Subject: If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

Can the 40+ folks add i they used any ART? I'm 41.3 and just had my first miscarriage at 9 weeks
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2013 15:16     Subject: If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

You don't hAve to worry. What is most likely to happen is that you will have a perfectly normal baby , regardless of what tests you do or don't take . I'm the 42 yo ttc pp and im just not doing anything other than the 20 week scan.
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2013 14:33     Subject: Re:If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:40! Wow, love seeing I'm not the oldest. Second baby. I haven't ruled out having a third (but probably won't - mainly because all of the monitoring and extra tests are bringing me down majorly with this one and I can only imagine it would be worse at 42 or so).


Give birth with a midwife. They will only make you do extra tests if you actually need them not just because of your age.


I'm with a midwife now - GW. They recommend the tests routinely. You can decline any and all, but once the recommendation is out there, you worry.
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2013 11:22     Subject: If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

I feel 400 years old most of the time. I find myself surprised I can identify with Egyptian mummies.
Anonymous
Post 08/23/2013 11:20     Subject: Re:If you think you are the oldest person on here, post your age

44 pregnant with my second (and last).