Anonymous wrote:OP thank you for your contribution to DC fashion with whatever you buy. Some of the bags ladies in DC wear are really horrible.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
You o buy groceries. OP wants to spend HER money on a bag.
You realize that's gross, right? Like, disgusting. I hope someone serrates it with a knife.
Are you married? Did you get an engagement ring (did you return it and buy a bunch of smaller pieces of jewelry)? Was you wedding more than a small private ceremony and cocktail/bbq/potluck reception? Does your car have a sunroof? Do you have an air conditioned home? Do you ever buy something at a regular retail store or do you only shop at goodwill/consignment shops for everything? Do you ever eat out? Do you ever get a mani or pedi? These are things that people choose to spend money on but would seem like an extreme extravagance by others who don't have as much disposable income. You should examine your own expenses and see if others would fund them "gross" or "like, disgusting".
And don't get me start on multiple $1000+ vacations a year
I love many European luxury items and prefer to have a few quality items that last forever versus 20+ cheap pieces
And always hear this judgment from women at work when they choose to blow money in other ways that I am personally more frugal about.
Fashion items are somehow not ok but all the stuff listed above is?
The only judgment if any should be if you can't afford it...if you can get the fuck out of choice of what I enjoy doing with my disposable income that I work my ass off for.
Exactly!
Anonymous wrote:Some people would look at a bag that cost $1,000 and think "what a great bag. I really treated myself. How wonderful."
....whereas I would always look at that bag and think "oh my gosh I could have spent that money in such a smarter way. I could have bought several bags (which will still last years and years!) and other accessories as well."
Sort of like when I look at my car. Is it fancy? Nope. Is it sexy and sporty? Nope. Is it paid for in full and does it suit all of my needs? Yes and yes.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/marni-leather-hobo/3517315?origin=category-personalizedsort&contextualcategoryid=0&fashionColor=&resultback=2622&cm_sp=personalizedsort-_-browseresults-_-undefined_7_A
This. Classic and useful. Drool.
And I have the exact same purse. Got it for $16 at TJMaxx.
Yes, you got a copy of that design. You did not get a Marni bag for $16.
So what? Why would you want a $1000 bag that looks like a $16 bag?
Anonymous wrote:This is OP. I am leaning towards something by Ferragamo, their designs are pretty timeless. The whole point is to get something I wouldn't normally get myself, because it's a lavish gift.
What do you guys think about these?
http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/salvatore-ferragamo-new-fanisa-leather-hobo/3351438?origin=keywordsearch
http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/salvatore-ferragamo-bice-leather-tote/3351325?origin=keywordsearch-personalizedsort&contextualcategoryid=0&fashionColor=&resultback=147&cm_sp=personalizedsort-_-searchresults-_-undefined_1_B
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/marni-leather-hobo/3517315?origin=category-personalizedsort&contextualcategoryid=0&fashionColor=&resultback=2622&cm_sp=personalizedsort-_-browseresults-_-undefined_7_A
This. Classic and useful. Drool.
And I have the exact same purse. Got it for $16 at TJMaxx.
Yes, you got a copy of that design. You did not get a Marni bag for $16.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I think that the OP should do what she wants to do with her money, but I have to say, I look at the suggested bags in the responses and I just don't get it. Why do these bags cost so much money? I have seen a couple comments related to durability. Is that what it is? If so, I guess that you have to make sure that you will get something that you will want to keep using for years and years. I don't know if I would be able to do that.
They are status symbols.
Anonymous wrote:I probably would buy a purse by Hobo International, which I know is not an expensive designer but I really like their style.
And a pair of Frye boots.