Anonymous wrote:Did you miss the first part of the OP's sentence?
And "stay in the crosswalk" actually is one of the safety rules we're supposed to be teaching our children.
http://www.montgomerycountymd.gov/dot-pedsafety/blairwalkproject.html
Anonymous wrote:maril332 wrote:I don't think that OP blames the victim or any future possible victims. I do think that the OP is saying that pedestrians should be aware of surroundings. Probably not in Xavier's case (as he had no warning) but just that kids should be looking out for driver's who are not following the rules.
The OP said, "I in no way think that the driver is not to blame but I do think that we are sometimes to lax in teaching out kids safety rules."
Guess what you're doing when you say, "I'm not blaming the victim, but..."? That's right -- you're blaming the victim.
maril332 wrote:I don't think that OP blames the victim or any future possible victims. I do think that the OP is saying that pedestrians should be aware of surroundings. Probably not in Xavier's case (as he had no warning) but just that kids should be looking out for driver's who are not following the rules.
Anonymous wrote:the person who created this post is very ignorant and so is anyone who agrees. how can you compare texting while driving to rape anyway?? who does that? also the child was crossing the street at a stop sign, which children are allowed to do i'm sure! him and his 13-year-old sister were going to the park (gee, wonder why kids cross the street to do that for?) and this moronic woman who thinks she can drive and text at the same time RAN a STOP SIGN and HIT A KID! how can you blame the kid for that? how can you blame the mom who let her kids walk to the park to have fun? oh i'm sorry we should all keep our kids locked up tight instead of allowing them to be young and run along to play while the mom gets some much needed work done at home.
lets see, so we should blame the parents who let their kids play in their own front yard but yet get hit by stray bullets? must be the parents fault as well when a driver jumps a car over the curb and hits the kids while they play on the sidewalk? oh no wait! we should blame the parents who send their kids to school and get beat up by bullies?
geez, the person who started this MUST be a kid or not have any, as well as not have any common sense. you are saying don't blame the victim? WELL YOU JUST DID, hypocrite.
Anonymous wrote:Okay so I might be the most avid "anti text while driving" activist. However... The same way people try to make te pitiful argument o "teaching girls not to get raped" (I think victim shaming is always wrong btw) I think that we should teach kids to stay out of the street and always remain vigilant. When I see te commercial with the boy named Xavier in the wheelchair I think firstly that it is sad that people text and drive and it can be just as bad as driving drunk... But secondly I think that, this child must have been in the street in order to
Be hit by a distracted driver. I in no way think that the driver is not to blame but I do think that we are sometimes to lax in teaching out kids safety rules. I have neighbors that let the kids run back and forth in the street never looking for cars. I know that as a driver I must be cautious of pedestrians and other cars but some pedestrians act as if they are totally oblivious even when they are walking in the middle of the street. I guess my main point is that there are terrible drivers, there are distracted drivers and that is one thing, but raising a generation of kids who do not have the street smarts to know that they have to interact with cars and not ll drivers are looking out for them.
Anonymous wrote:http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=SCVZqeAGY-A
This commercial drives me insane. The woman goes on and on about how she can no longer (semi-scream) at her kid: "Go out in the yard and play".... when I can't help but think that likely caused this kid to be outside, clearly far from supervised with her attitude, and get hit by a car. I tun the radio every time it comes on.
Anonymous wrote:Why describe the mom in the commercial as degenerate? There's no cursing or speech which is threatening/racist/profane/criminal.
Maybe OP has been cited for texting and driving and has a chip on his/her shoulder...