Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:50     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
Trolla-Lolla
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:50     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
Anonymous wrote:No, she's not a step child, why? She loves the kids and they love her! The kids are her half brothers and sisters though as they do not have the same dad and I am a single mom.

I just need support sometimes and I do not appreciate the attitude DD gives me sometimes about her responsibilities in this household.

Case and point, the other day DD wanted to go to the mall with a friend. I told her yes but she had to take the 2 DCs with her (2mos and 19 mos). She pitched a fit yelling at me about how she's "entitled" to free time without the kids. I told her she was being disrespectful and I wouldn't stand for it. She actually said "entitled"! Long story short, she ended up taking the kids with her and having a nice day with them at the mall. Like I have stated before, she is being a self centered brat, but I guess that is to be expected from a teenager.


I am just going to say it -- OP you should not have had so many children if you cannot manage to care for them without forcing your eldest child to be a co-parent.

Yes she is entitled to time alone from the kids -- THEY ARE NOT HER KIDS. She did not choose to have them. They are YOUR responsibility.

You are so unfair to your 17 DD, I simply cannot believe it. You are abusing your mother-daughter relationship.

You can likely kiss that help from her goodbye the day she turns 18 I am betting!
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:49     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
Anonymous wrote:DD is looking at colleges. She wants to be a nurse, looking at colleges in MI, WI, and CA. and to the dumbass PP, she does want her own kids in the future.


Who are YOU calling a dumbass?
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:48     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
DD is looking at colleges. She wants to be a nurse, looking at colleges in MI, WI, and CA. and to the dumbass PP, she does want her own kids in the future.
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:39     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
OP, if you are actually real, what is your plan next year when your DD hits 18 and heads for the hills as fast as she possibly can?
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:36     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
Yawn.
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:29     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
Jeff can we block this troll now? She's getting out of control.
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:27     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
Anonymous wrote:OP here, I just took them all because she had already dressed them and had them fed. Also, during the doctors appointment she took them to the park downstairs and about a mile away. The kids are 2 mos, 19 mos (one at the appt), 3 yr old twins, and a 6 yr old. And she had a few toys that she packed to bring, I thought they would be okay in the waiting room.
But that still doesn't explain why you thought they had to come - just that you thought they were able to manage it.
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:25     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
Anonymous wrote:I started out by telling you the things that DD does because while I think she is bratty, she is still my child too. She helps with the kids because that is what she is supposed to do. That is how family dynamics work.


In dysfunctional world, troll.
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:25     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
Troooolllllll
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:24     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
Anonymous wrote:OP if you are real
1) get your tubes tied
2) hire a nanny or daycare that is not your DD, you can not use her as slave labor.


I'm guessing nobody else wants to work around the clock for $70/wk.
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:23     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
OP if you are real
1) get your tubes tied
2) hire a nanny or daycare that is not your DD, you can not use her as slave labor.
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:23     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
I started out by telling you the things that DD does because while I think she is bratty, she is still my child too. She helps with the kids because that is what she is supposed to do. That is how family dynamics work.
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:22     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
What parent would want a 17 yr old going to the mall with a friend to bring a TWO MONTH OLD? Ridic.
Anonymous
Post 05/30/2013 14:22     Subject: Am I being a "martyr"?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op again, I was not aware of them going to the playground until after her little meltdown calling me a martyr, one of the kids said "mommy we went to the swings"


Uh, you wrote that she was being pissy about being in the waiting room for two hours a half hour ago. You also wrote that DD is home with the kids. So why would you present an inaccurate story other than that you were lying?


Because ultimately they could not leave the doctors office. Yes they could go a mile down the street to the park, but DD still had to keep them entertained either at the docs or very close by. Point is they couldn't go home and be in more space. DD was probably just making do with the fact that that kids were restless.


You are such a shitty troll lol.