Anonymous
04/25/2017 19:02
Subject: Re:Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:She does not want a man older than her, because she does not want to be the one wiping the drool off their chin.
I see this sentiment here often. I have three uncles who cared for their elderly (but younger) wives who had dementia or end-of-life cancer.
I guess when I make out my will it would be nice to know whether I am in a relationship with a drool-wiper or a free-loader.
Anonymous
04/25/2017 17:43
Subject: Preference for older/mature women?
Yep, that self confidence she was displaying is super sexy! I'll take that over a younger woman trying too hard any day.
Anonymous
04/25/2017 16:15
Subject: Re:Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
PP, the men were the same age as your friend which equals a relationship, and they likely saw her advertising for that, while you were a potential hookup.
Is that supposed to be a burn? To which party?
No burn, just stating a very real possibility.
Another possibility is that the poster looked more intelligent, interesting and hard to get, while the younger friend looked like she would hookup with the first guy who asked her and the men her age don't want a relationship or hookup with her. Just stating a very real possibility.
Anonymous
04/25/2017 14:30
Subject: Re:Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:Most... actually ALL of my friends prefer female friendships and focusing on their children rather than having a LTR with a man
But they sign up for dating sites anyway. That, I don't understand.
For hookups. Why not? That's how you meet people for dating, hookups, whatever.
Anonymous
04/25/2017 14:29
Subject: Re:Preference for older/mature women?
Most... actually ALL of my friends prefer female friendships and focusing on their children rather than having a LTR with a man
But they sign up for dating sites anyway. That, I don't understand.
Anonymous
04/25/2017 14:23
Subject: Re:Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:I am a 50 + happily married woman. My BFF went through a nasty divorce with a man who was just a bad fit for her. Her kids are independent, out of college. Her tubes are tied. She has a good career, money, a great house in an expensive neighborhood. She is fit, attractive and has a high libido. She does not want what a young 20-30 year old woman wants from a relationship. For a long time she pushed back all the young guys who wanted to hook up with her because she wondered about the age disparity. I encouraged her to date like a man. She is single and she does not want marriage. A 50 year old man does not wonder when he has a willing 19 year old woman wanting to be with him.
She tried dating men of her age but quality picking remains slim. She has a couple FWB younger men (in their 20s) and she has never been happier in her life sexually. After years of bad sex, she is getting the 50 shades of gray sex. I can tell you that she is not going after these guys. They are the ones who want to be with her. Why not? More power to her. She does not want a man older than her, because she does not want to be the one wiping the drool off their chin. She has made her peace with the fact that she may not ever have a LTR in her life.
I am also a happily married woman 50+ and have GFs who are divorced with FWB younger men in their 20s and 30s. Most... actually ALL of my friends prefer female friendships and focusing on their children rather than having a LTR with a man. Having sex with younger men takes care of their needs so it works out really great for them. I'll admit I get envious.
Anonymous
04/25/2017 13:48
Subject: Re:Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:I'm a 38 year old divorced man and my parents live in a large retirement community in FL. They are early to bed people so when I visit I usually head out on my own to the local bars. The women I meet there are in their mid to late 50's and they are a pleasure to spend time with. They are very attractive, fun and within minutes they can be very direct about what they are interested in. The first time it happened I was very surprised and politely said no as older women were not my thing. But when it happened again I decided what the hell and went back to her place. Her energy and enthusiasm for sex was incredible. I've been with a few others just like her and they are all open and honest about what they want. While my preference is for women my own age, these older women are great.
I hope you practiced safe sex. The number one public health problem in The Villages (a large, over 55, golf themed retirement community in northern FL) is STDs!
Anonymous
04/25/2017 08:06
Subject: Re:Preference for older/mature women?
I am a 50 + happily married woman. My BFF went through a nasty divorce with a man who was just a bad fit for her. Her kids are independent, out of college. Her tubes are tied. She has a good career, money, a great house in an expensive neighborhood. She is fit, attractive and has a high libido. She does not want what a young 20-30 year old woman wants from a relationship. For a long time she pushed back all the young guys who wanted to hook up with her because she wondered about the age disparity. I encouraged her to date like a man. She is single and she does not want marriage. A 50 year old man does not wonder when he has a willing 19 year old woman wanting to be with him.
She tried dating men of her age but quality picking remains slim. She has a couple FWB younger men (in their 20s) and she has never been happier in her life sexually. After years of bad sex, she is getting the 50 shades of gray sex. I can tell you that she is not going after these guys. They are the ones who want to be with her. Why not? More power to her. She does not want a man older than her, because she does not want to be the one wiping the drool off their chin. She has made her peace with the fact that she may not ever have a LTR in her life.
She tried dating men of her age but quality picking remains slim. She has a couple FWB younger men (in their 20s) and she has never been happier in her life sexually. After years of bad sex, she is getting the 50 shades of gray sex. I can tell you that she is not going after these guys. They are the ones who want to be with her. Why not? More power to her. She does not want a man older than her, because she does not want to be the one wiping the drool off their chin. She has made her peace with the fact that she may not ever have a LTR in her life.
Anonymous
04/25/2017 07:53
Subject: Re:Preference for older/mature women?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:
PP, the men were the same age as your friend which equals a relationship, and they likely saw her advertising for that, while you were a potential hookup.
Is that supposed to be a burn? To which party?
No burn, just stating a very real possibility.