Anonymous
04/14/2013 23:36
Subject: Re:What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
Mmm, English accents!! 
Anonymous
04/14/2013 22:58
Subject: Re:What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
Lost, wounded types. Old souls. Accents make me swoon.
Anonymous
04/14/2013 21:56
Subject: What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
Money
Anonymous
04/14/2013 21:55
Subject: What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
A little grubby, dirty, stubble, or tattoos, etc...an edge, even if if is just in their mannerisms.
cannot stand the khaki-wearing nerds who flood DC
cannot stand the khaki-wearing nerds who flood DC
Anonymous
04/14/2013 21:47
Subject: What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
Anonymous wrote:I am a 45 yr old lady who finds attractive:
1.) A head of hair. Nothing turns me off than a middle-aged guy who has gone completely bald. I do not like that greasy bald look. Unless the guy is black. Silly, right?! I agree, but am being honest here. While greasy bald men turn me off. However a SHAVED bald head can be attractive.
2.) A nice face. I.e., clear skin, pretty eyes {a plus!!}, straight teeth and medium in proportion facial features.
3.) Short, well - clipped fingernails and toe nails. Any guy who doesn't keep his nails clean and groomed is not the guy for me.
4.) A healthy body.
No, a man does not have to have a six pack, but a beer belly is just gross. If wanted a beer belly man, I could have just dated my own father. LOL.
5.) No back hair.
I dated this guy once and once we got into bed and I felt his back and how hairy it was, I wanted to die. Just die. It was so gross.
Speaking of hair, men..it is 2013. A bit of manscaping is a HUGE plus.
I'd be turned off by a guy who shaved his body hair. I love me a hairy masculine man!
Anonymous
04/14/2013 07:00
Subject: What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
Assertive and decisive.
Anonymous
04/14/2013 02:34
Subject: What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
Tall, dark and handsome, like my husband. Definitely the dom, strong, in control type of guy.
Dorky guys, Jewish or otherwise, look like kids with hair and jobs to me.
Dorky guys, Jewish or otherwise, look like kids with hair and jobs to me.
Anonymous
04/14/2013 02:30
Subject: What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
Apparently, I like adorkable Jewish guys. I prefer to think of them as having unconventional good looks. What does that say about me?
Anonymous
04/13/2013 22:44
Subject: What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
I agree w/ Dom too. I would like to take a backseat once in a while. I can have a strong personality and need someone to call me out on somethings. I was brought a lil bratty and spankings in the bedroom is sooo hot. I should've gotten made him get me the whip at the store.
Anonymous
04/01/2013 23:57
Subject: What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
Dominance. I don't like weak men. I'm strong, so I don't respect weakness. I don't like sneaky either.
Anonymous
04/01/2013 23:52
Subject: What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
Their intellect, their personal writing (blogs), their sense of humor(I prefer witty types or sarcastic types). I totally fall for these guys. They usually look pretty average or even less than average appearance-wise but once I get to hear them or mostly read their work, it's a huge draw.
Anonymous
03/31/2013 10:01
Subject: Re:What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
you lost me at easy bellies....
Anonymous
03/31/2013 01:35
Subject: What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
"Now I look for men whose easy bellies
show a love for the flesh and the table,
men who will come in the Kitchen
and sit, who don't think peeling potatoes
makes their penis shrink; men with broad
fingers and purple figgy balls,
men with rumpled furrows and the slightly
messed look at ease of beds recently well used."
- from "Cats like Angels" by Marge Piercy
show a love for the flesh and the table,
men who will come in the Kitchen
and sit, who don't think peeling potatoes
makes their penis shrink; men with broad
fingers and purple figgy balls,
men with rumpled furrows and the slightly
messed look at ease of beds recently well used."
- from "Cats like Angels" by Marge Piercy
Anonymous
03/30/2013 22:11
Subject: Re:What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
Anonymous wrote:This is awful, but a hot and sexy happily married man. Then I try to corrupt them, emotionally if not physically. Nothing hotter.
Heehee, ditto that and add in a good looking priest! I know I'm going straight to hell for that last one.
Anonymous
03/30/2013 15:11
Subject: What makes someone attractive/hot to you?
I like someone who will tease me verbally and later, sexually. A man with a genuinely witty comeback is hot. I like my sex to be serious; so meeting someone who knows how to finesse both sides is very erotic. Tall, clean shaven, cultured, with a few shekels to spend...perfection.