Anonymous wrote:Thank you everyone for your tips. I will sure emphasize my child’s skills, birthdate, and why it’s a disservice for her to start kindergarten a year later. I really appreciate all the helpful guidances as I’m writting my appeal.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thank you for the helpful responses. The most frustrating part for me is knowing my child is ready and not being able to go. I don’t plan to bully anyone to get the results. That method never works and it just pisses people more. I plan to be logical and advocate for my child based on what I believe is best. If anyone has anymore tips, please share.
Denials are not typically about your child not being ready the way a typical 5 year old would be. They turn down lots of kids for early entrance every year who would do just fine in kindergarten, but that's not good enough. They usually only let kids in who are so far ahead that they're already at or past end-of-kindergarten standards, to the point that waiting and going to kindergarten on time would be a big disservice to them because they'd likely be performing multiple grades ahead by then. If that's your kid, tell them that. You want to convince them that waiting for kindergarten will go badly for your kid (and by extension for the school trying to accommodate them), not just that they're ready for K and admitting them will go fine.
DD's school said they needed to be able to pass the end of K tests so counting, adding, reading some sight words, writing basic things.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thank you for the helpful responses. The most frustrating part for me is knowing my child is ready and not being able to go. I don’t plan to bully anyone to get the results. That method never works and it just pisses people more. I plan to be logical and advocate for my child based on what I believe is best. If anyone has anymore tips, please share.
Denials are not typically about your child not being ready the way a typical 5 year old would be. They turn down lots of kids for early entrance every year who would do just fine in kindergarten, but that's not good enough. They usually only let kids in who are so far ahead that they're already at or past end-of-kindergarten standards, to the point that waiting and going to kindergarten on time would be a big disservice to them because they'd likely be performing multiple grades ahead by then. If that's your kid, tell them that. You want to convince them that waiting for kindergarten will go badly for your kid (and by extension for the school trying to accommodate them), not just that they're ready for K and admitting them will go fine.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Thank you for the helpful responses. The most frustrating part for me is knowing my child is ready and not being able to go. I don’t plan to bully anyone to get the results. That method never works and it just pisses people more. I plan to be logical and advocate for my child based on what I believe is best. If anyone has anymore tips, please share.
Denials are not typically about your child not being ready the way a typical 5 year old would be. They turn down lots of kids for early entrance every year who would do just fine in kindergarten, but that's not good enough. They usually only let kids in who are so far ahead that they're already at or past end-of-kindergarten standards, to the point that waiting and going to kindergarten on time would be a big disservice to them because they'd likely be performing multiple grades ahead by then. If that's your kid, tell them that. You want to convince them that waiting for kindergarten will go badly for your kid (and by extension for the school trying to accommodate them), not just that they're ready for K and admitting them will go fine.
Anonymous wrote:Thank you for the helpful responses. The most frustrating part for me is knowing my child is ready and not being able to go. I don’t plan to bully anyone to get the results. That method never works and it just pisses people more. I plan to be logical and advocate for my child based on what I believe is best. If anyone has anymore tips, please share.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We know a family whose child failed the test 2 years ago and their appeal was successful. Worth a try.
Do you know how they were able to appeal successfully? My plan is to talk to the principal to get details on the assessment and counter that in the appeal. I also plan to summarize why I believe my child is ready for kindergarten.
I wish I knew more. I think they had essentially written it off but filed the appeal just in case and were surprised when it came through. It was a super close birthday and I’m pretty sure that was their basic argument. School dependent probably but absolutely give it a try.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We know a family whose child failed the test 2 years ago and their appeal was successful. Worth a try.
Do you know how they were able to appeal successfully? My plan is to talk to the principal to get details on the assessment and counter that in the appeal. I also plan to summarize why I believe my child is ready for kindergarten.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We know a family whose child failed the test 2 years ago and their appeal was successful. Worth a try.
Do you know how they were able to appeal successfully? My plan is to talk to the principal to get details on the assessment and counter that in the appeal. I also plan to summarize why I believe my child is ready for kindergarten.
Anonymous wrote:We know a family whose child failed the test 2 years ago and their appeal was successful. Worth a try.
Anonymous wrote:OP of 2025-You need to look at the big picture. Being the oldest can build more confidence and leadership skills and having that extra year with you is something really precious.