Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 17:32     Subject: Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
Anonymous wrote:The thing is, she got a pass when you are with young kids. But with kids out of the house and with a lot of wealth, you can afford to hire a trainer and a cook to make your meals. Even if you had no motivation, you can get into shape because of your money. You owe it to yourself, your husband, and your work initiatives also deserve to have the best you. Strong and energetic.

She has no excuse.


Talk to me after you've been through menopause.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 17:26     Subject: Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
The thing is, she got a pass when you are with young kids. But with kids out of the house and with a lot of wealth, you can afford to hire a trainer and a cook to make your meals. Even if you had no motivation, you can get into shape because of your money. You owe it to yourself, your husband, and your work initiatives also deserve to have the best you. Strong and energetic.

She has no excuse.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 17:24     Subject: Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
Anonymous wrote:Gen. petraus looks like a dog and I can only imagine how old and wrinkly his dick is. Gross.


I didn't realize twelve year olds were on this site. At least try to keep the comments mature.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 17:05     Subject: Re:Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
Anonymous wrote:While she is indeed a horrendous looking pig of a woman, I don't think it's that simple. There are plenty of men with fabulous looking wives who still screw around, and oftentimes it is with women who are nowhere near as attractive as their wives. Laying off the donuts is probably a good idea, but there's really no keeping a guy straight if he has the inclination and opportunity to wander.


A horrendous pig of a woman?? She looks her age, dresses well and has an important, interesting job helping military families - we should all look and live as well as her when we're 60.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 16:53     Subject: Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I feel lucky. I was fat when we met and am still fat. We've been together 26 years and are still happy together.


Are you rich? Or is your DH fat too?


Why would a guy marry a fat woman? Are you a Walmart couple?
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 16:47     Subject: Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
Anonymous wrote:I feel lucky. I was fat when we met and am still fat. We've been together 26 years and are still happy together.


Are you rich? Or is your DH fat too?
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 16:39     Subject: Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
Anonymous wrote:Gen. petraus looks like a dog and I can only imagine how old and wrinkly his dick is. Gross.


Lol!!!

To quote a song, Yah I got a little fat, but my shorty told me he likes it like that. That look works for some. Duh.

Um, maaaaaybe Big P was not the greatest husband. And his wife doesn't care what the hell he does.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 16:39     Subject: Re:Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:FYI, old Petraeus pic:



He's goofy-looking.

If I were him, I'd be pissed if my wife went from that to her current self. Just sayin'


Really? Because he was ugly then, and ugly now. He ought to just be grateful that she married him in the first place. Asshole.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 16:29     Subject: Re:Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
While she is indeed a horrendous looking pig of a woman, I don't think it's that simple. There are plenty of men with fabulous looking wives who still screw around, and oftentimes it is with women who are nowhere near as attractive as their wives. Laying off the donuts is probably a good idea, but there's really no keeping a guy straight if he has the inclination and opportunity to wander.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 16:23     Subject: Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sadly, I kind of agree. I would still be furious if my DH cheated on me, but if I were 40 pounds heavier, didn't care what I looked like and had completely lost all semblance of my former self, I would have to admit to myself that an affair wouldn't be a big surprise. Men are men.


Gotta agree. I was 110 pounds when I married my DH 25 years ago. I was 114 at my doctor's appointment on Thursday. I was an avid runner back then. I can't run marathons anymore because of knee injuries. But I still run every single day. My husband married a women who cared about her health and fitness and about the way she looked. Changing the rules after a few years of marriage seems unfair.

If I were overweight, I'm not sure I would blame my husband for looking elsewhere.


Life's rules are not that rigid. People who boil this stuff down to sound bites like this just sound so dumb.

Plus, it in no way excuses an affair. Ever. You're not happy? Talk to your spouse or get a divorce. Sneaking around is the worst sort of disrespect. And is never ok.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 16:20     Subject: Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
Gen. petraus looks like a dog and I can only imagine how old and wrinkly his dick is. Gross.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 16:17     Subject: Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
I love and respect my husband too, but if I was embedded with Brad Pitt and he was infatuated with me.....OMG.....
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 16:07     Subject: Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Man here. It's not Holly's weight or anything physical that made him cheat. You guys are overanalyzing the situation. He was offere some free P*ssy from an attractive woman and he took it (only it wasn't free and cost him everything). I'm sure he loves and respects his wife and thinks she's a great person/mother/etc. No matter how attractive my wife was, if a pretty woman was embedded with me and infatuated with me, it would be hard to turn her down. Just being honest.


Highly doubt that.

Man here again...ok, maybe "respect" was a reach.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 16:05     Subject: Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
Anonymous wrote:Man here. It's not Holly's weight or anything physical that made him cheat. You guys are overanalyzing the situation. He was offere some free P*ssy from an attractive woman and he took it (only it wasn't free and cost him everything). I'm sure he loves and respects his wife and thinks she's a great person/mother/etc. No matter how attractive my wife was, if a pretty woman was embedded with me and infatuated with me, it would be hard to turn her down. Just being honest.


Highly doubt that.
Anonymous
Post 11/12/2012 16:05     Subject: Re:Don't get fat and happy just because you've been married for over 20 years.
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:FYI, old Petraeus pic:



He's goofy-looking.

If I were him, I'd be pissed if my wife went from that to her current self. Just sayin'
Yeah and he went from looking like a dork to.....looking like a dork.


I'd say, he looks more attractive now than he did back then. Must be all that power.