Anonymous wrote:As a Jew, I find this thread very interesting, because we have the pay to pray model. Weird, since our culture is so associated with guilt; you'd think the rabbis could just guilt us into giving into a weekly basket or a tithe situation. I'm particularly fascinated by the Mormon approach, going for a check up in December ensuring that you have tithed. I have learned so much. Thanks to all for your perspectives - the Jews are always handwringing about the membership dues and the ticket to high holy day services, but it seems like no one is 100% happy with how they support their religious institutions.
I am Jewish too and I pay synagogue dues but they are certainly not compulsory. There are many people who attend services weekly who never pay dues and while members of the Board might know who they are, no one in the general community knows, so there isnt really a shame/guilt that accompanies refusal to pay.
While seats at high holidays are the only time payment is specifically required, many people come and stand in the back or take an unused chair (often extra chairs are set up for those who havent paid).
You pay for things you want or need. I want the synagogue to be there, so I have to support it year-round, even if I only need it sporadically.