Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I'm the PTA president at a public school in VA and I can assure you the PTA has nothing to do with classroom assignments.
officially that is.

Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:"they often seperate best friends so they aren't too dependant on one another or too clique-y. "
dearl lord. that is the stupidest thing I have ever heard. it's wonderful for children to make best friends at an early age. I find it terrible schools would deliberatesly aim to discourage that.
Parent Here: My child is getting separated from his friend this year and I support it. They are in class to learn, not goof off. They also need to develop friendships throughout the grade, not just with a couple of kids. If one group of kids get's too tight, then that can exclude other kids and make it harder for new kids coming into school. Cliques can lead bullying.
Bottom line: School is not a social club.
My son was separated from his best friend and I concur that it was a good decision. They are trouble in a classroom together. They of course will keep having playdates, but I know both of them will be much better behaved and attentive separated. I didn't request it and my son was dissapointed, but I completely understand why it was done.
Anonymous wrote:Bingo. (To the note about the clear pattern.) Watch for a few years, and you'll really see it.
OK, eeeeek, put on the brakes here. Or we suggesting that the school district which has a whopping 25% advanced academic population has bad teachers??? How could that be?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Yep. PTA parent who picked my kids teachers here.
As long as you are nice, and work to foster a relationship with the principal in a positive way, why should they say no?
I can see the PTA parents who are a pain in the butt not getting accommodated, but really- volunteering at the school for both SAH and working moms should equal some perks. It's only fair.
It's a PUBLIC SCHOOL education. I don't care how much you do, or do not, volunteer; this should have no impact on which teachers your children are assigned to. Volunteering is a personal choice and you have no idea what leads a parent to make that choice. Sometimes people just can't, but that doesn't mean their children shouldn't get the "good" teachers, too, because you feel entitled. You should read up on the definition of the word "volunteer" before you start thinking that volunteering equals a right to perks like this.
Anonymous wrote:Yep. PTA parent who picked my kids teachers here.
As long as you are nice, and work to foster a relationship with the principal in a positive way, why should they say no?
I can see the PTA parents who are a pain in the butt not getting accommodated, but really- volunteering at the school for both SAH and working moms should equal some perks. It's only fair.
Anonymous wrote:Yep. PTA parent who picked my kids teachers here.
As long as you are nice, and work to foster a relationship with the principal in a positive way, why should they say no?
I can see the PTA parents who are a pain in the butt not getting accommodated, but really- volunteering at the school for both SAH and working moms should equal some perks. It's only fair.