Anonymous wrote:It is his problem. If divorce were to be the answer it would be fine with me....
Anonymous wrote:OP, this could be very destructive to your marriage.
My advice would be that you voluntarily give your DH all access to all your stuff. Give him the reassurance he seems to need. Since you have nothing to hide, act in the best interest of the larger organism which is your marriage here.
I understand your feelings about privacy but obviously there is a problem here - his - and you'd be well advised to give him what he needs to get over it.