Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:We don't shuttle. We own a home in NYC so we're going home for the summer.
Yippie.... Come off your high horse now.
You asked.
! It is also reinforced by just about everyone in public everytime we are out. They were the classic, chubby-cheeked Gerber baby children. I have had a couple friends tell me that the grandparents (their own parents) talk about cute my own kids are completely bypassing talk of their own grandchildren. FWIW, my own parents think my son's little girl friend is one of the most adorable kids they've ever seen. They only have grandsons so this doesn't bother me. She is one beautiful child!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here. Thanks everybody for your responses. It is an interesting topic, not really one you can discuss directly with other moms. "Hey, I was wondering, do you think your weird looking kid is the cutest kid? Because to me, he can't hold a candle to my son." Don't think it would go over well at play group![]()
I agree with what many of you have said. I have looked back at some of the pictures of my son from when he was an infant, and I can see now he's not the cutest, or even that cute. He had kind of a big head! So I was thinking that my current belief in his absolute cuteness might be influenced by my complete love and adoration for him. I thought he was the cutest then, and now wonder what I was thinking. Like I said, not that it really matters, we can all think our kid's are the cutest, doesn't hurt anyone. And if it's a tad delusional, so what. I remember learning that all kinds of animal babies are cute so they won't be killed by the adults. I mean even baby possums are cute!
And to the moms who brought up modeling and the woman who called me hon, you are missing the point. I'm not trying to one up your kid, as you are mine, and I feel bad for your children.
We can all think our kid's the cutest and be glad we didn't eat them![]()
Actually, you're missing the point. I'm the mom of the child model. Sometimes the kid is objectively cute. So what. Nothing to do with oneupmanship. My kid's been modeling a long time and one thing I've learned is that it's a JOB - not very glamorous either. I've grateful that we don't have to worry about college and that DS will never have to flip burgers or bag groceries when his older but may have a part time job that pays better for the time he puts into it.
Also, parents should think their kid is the cutest ever and are blinded by love. All children deserve that, IMO.