Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Simple.
Many of you think that Bruce is more attractive than Ashton because you are closer in age to the former, and remember him when he was younger.
I am sure most young women would think Ashton more attractive than Bruce.

It's sad. I am 18 years younger than my DH and always want to believe love can work out regardless of age. Of course, our age situation is more common and accepted.

18 years his junior?

ugh

I'm 45, btw, and find this repulsive.

sorry . . . But your husband is getting the better end of the deal. Hopefully, he has long-term health care.

Wow! What a nasty person you are. My grandparents were 15 years apart (grandmother was 20 and grandfather was 35 when they married - and yes, she was his first and only wife). They were married for over 50 years and loved each other dearly. They raised a beautiful family and stuck together through some really hard times. My grandfather lived to be 92 and yes, his health began to deteriorate near the end of his life. My grandmother (along with my mother and myself) helped to care for him. One of the most beautiful memories I have of them is the two of them in the hospital, my grandmother sitting next to his bed, holding his hand, and the two of them just looking into each others' eyes like they were the only two people in the world. They loved each other right up until the end. My grandmother passed away within a year of his passing - I just think she could not go on without him.

Your comments about healthcare and things not being so fabulous as people age are truly shallow. Sure, my life with my husband now is pretty fabulous and we are both in great health. But I know we will grow older and one day our health will probably not be so great. If my husband becomes ill, I intend to take care of him. I do not intend to resent him for being 7 years older than me and curse the fact that at 80 years old (or whenever) my life is not as fabulous as when we were young and first married. And you know what, if I get sick first, I believe he will do the same for me. I'm glad I am not married to a shallow and self-centered person such as yourself. Love and marriage are about more than just fun times - surely you realize this? Why on earth would you call someone else's marriage "repulsive" merely because of an age difference?

Anonymous wrote:Too bad for this OLD Woman Demi.Now she is going to stay alone and old in her misery,she should have stuck with husband #1.

Husband #1 was Freddy Moore...

I would have rather grown old with Bruce than spend a couple of years with Ashton.
It was not going to last, we all know that. Hollywood matches are temporary

I would stick by my cacer stricken father also.

Anonymous wrote:Zeta Jones married her father. A double yuck.

Again, do not get the yuck. They've been married around 10 years, have 2 kids, and seem happy. She stuck by him through his throat cancer. By all accounts, they seem to have a pretty solid marriage, especially by Hollywood standards. And yet the thing people choose to focus on is the age difference.

Zeta Jones married her father. A double yuck.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Simple.
Many of you think that Bruce is more attractive than Ashton because you are closer in age to the former, and remember him when he was younger.
I am sure most young women would think Ashton more attractive than Bruce.

It's sad. I am 18 years younger than my DH and always want to believe love can work out regardless of age. Of course, our age situation is more common and accepted.

18 years his junior?

ugh

I'm 45, btw, and find this repulsive.

sorry . . . But your husband is getting the better end of the deal. Hopefully, he has long-term health care.

Are Catherine Z-J and Michael Douglas repulsive? They've got about 30 years I think.

Yuck!

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm the younger wife poster - repulsive? Why can you not accept diversity in that respect?
I agree that my husband will likely be well looked after in his old age, by me. And I will likely be alone in my old age, although I hope to have caring children and grandchildren come to visit. But in the meantime, my children have a parental team that offers them a dual perspective - experience and youth coming together.
And DH looks and acts 15 years younger than his real age, which I appreciate while I can!

The younger wife poster, good for you!
The PP who called your relationship 'repulsive' simply is jealous that you're younger than she is.

jealous?

No

After watching my mother care for my father (who was 10 years her senior) as he suffered through Parkinson's, I don't think jealousy is even in my vocabulary.

long
term
healthcare

Sooo, it's repulsive to you because one day she will end up caring for her husband the way your mother cared for your father? Just because it's not the situation you'd want for yourself doesn't mean it's across the board repulsive.

This may come as a surprise to you, but disease can strike at any age.

most certainly

However, the chances are better that one becomes sick later in life with little chance of ever restoring his/her health.

You don't know until you go through it. So what's fabulous now is not necessarily so enviable later on.

I heard that Bruce and Deme ended because he cheated. Same with ashton. Sad.

I am not attracted to either of them now. Cheaters.

Demi has to gain weight. We all know weight as you age is healthy (to a point). It feels in the wrinkles. In that pic, it looks like she's trying to hold onto her youth. She would still be hot otherwise.

I'm 28 and would go for Ashton any day. Bruce looks like he has grandkids.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm the younger wife poster - repulsive? Why can you not accept diversity in that respect?
I agree that my husband will likely be well looked after in his old age, by me. And I will likely be alone in my old age, although I hope to have caring children and grandchildren come to visit. But in the meantime, my children have a parental team that offers them a dual perspective - experience and youth coming together.
And DH looks and acts 15 years younger than his real age, which I appreciate while I can!

The younger wife poster, good for you!
The PP who called your relationship 'repulsive' simply is jealous that you're younger than she is.

jealous?

No

After watching my mother care for my father (who was 10 years her senior) as he suffered through Parkinson's, I don't think jealousy is even in my vocabulary.

long
term
healthcare

Sooo, it's repulsive to you because one day she will end up caring for her husband the way your mother cared for your father? Just because it's not the situation you'd want for yourself doesn't mean it's across the board repulsive.

This may come as a surprise to you, but disease can strike at any age.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm the younger wife poster - repulsive? Why can you not accept diversity in that respect?
I agree that my husband will likely be well looked after in his old age, by me. And I will likely be alone in my old age, although I hope to have caring children and grandchildren come to visit. But in the meantime, my children have a parental team that offers them a dual perspective - experience and youth coming together.
And DH looks and acts 15 years younger than his real age, which I appreciate while I can!

The younger wife poster, good for you!
The PP who called your relationship 'repulsive' simply is jealous that you're younger than she is.

jealous?

No

After watching my mother care for my father (who was 10 years her senior) as he suffered through Parkinson's, I don't think jealousy is even in my vocabulary.

long
term
healthcare

Sooo, it's repulsive to you because one day she will end up caring for her husband the way your mother cared for your father? Just because it's not the situation you'd want for yourself doesn't mean it's across the board repulsive.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm the younger wife poster - repulsive? Why can you not accept diversity in that respect?
I agree that my husband will likely be well looked after in his old age, by me. And I will likely be alone in my old age, although I hope to have caring children and grandchildren come to visit. But in the meantime, my children have a parental team that offers them a dual perspective - experience and youth coming together.
And DH looks and acts 15 years younger than his real age, which I appreciate while I can!

The younger wife poster, good for you!
The PP who called your relationship 'repulsive' simply is jealous that you're younger than she is.

jealous?

No

After watching my mother care for my father (who was 10 years her senior) as he suffered through Parkinson's, I don't think jealousy is even in my vocabulary.

long
term
healthcare

Anonymous wrote:

I'm the younger wife poster - repulsive? Why can you not accept diversity in that respect?
I agree that my husband will likely be well looked after in his old age, by me. And I will likely be alone in my old age, although I hope to have caring children and grandchildren come to visit. But in the meantime, my children have a parental team that offers them a dual perspective - experience and youth coming together.
And DH looks and acts 15 years younger than his real age, which I appreciate while I can!

Question -- did husband divorce wife #1 for you? If so, how do you feel about that? Are you worried that he might dump you for yet another younger model?

I'm the first wife actually - he was immersed in his career when younger, but is now a great husband and father.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Simple.
Many of you think that Bruce is more attractive than Ashton because you are closer in age to the former, and remember him when he was younger.
I am sure most young women would think Ashton more attractive than Bruce.

It's sad. I am 18 years younger than my DH and always want to believe love can work out regardless of age. Of course, our age situation is more common and accepted.

18 years his junior?

ugh

I'm 45, btw, and find this repulsive.

sorry . . . But your husband is getting the better end of the deal. Hopefully, he has long-term health care.

Re-read what you wrote and think about it. You'll realize you are a horrible person. Shame on you.