Anonymous wrote:For the poster from 2/21 at 10:30 who appealed an initial EEK rejection, would you be willing to talk a bit about how you appealed? My daughter misses the cut-off by 1 day (15 hours to be exact), and I am dreading the "assessment" experience. I've been told the testing requires children to basically demonstrate they already have all the skills other children will have by the END of kindergarten, which seems like a ridiculously high standard. I'm confident my daughter is ready for kindergarten, but I don't think she should be expected to be ready for first grade skills at the time of the assessment when she'll be 4.5! I am also frustrated at the lack of attention the school systems seems to be paying to examining the specific child's needs. My daughter is 15 hours too young and clearly would not benefit from spending another year in preschool, but there is no apparent consideration for that. There is a rigid test with rigid expectations and that's the end of it. I feel like I need to prepare to do battle (e.g. appeal a potentially negative decision) to ensure the best outcome for MY child.
Hi- It's 10:30 again:
When I got the letter of rejection I made an appointment to meet with the principal to review the decision. While she couldn't show me the documents, I gently pressed for as much specific information as I could get. What lead the committee to think that she was too immature? Why did the committe think that her fine motor skills were not advanced enough? Etc...
It was hard because I wasn't able to meet with the "commitee" so all the principal could tell me was what was on the form (whether she witnessed it or not). In my strongly worded request for an appeal I address every single issue point by point using as much relevant detail as I could. When I called to make sure that my letter of appeal had been recieved, the person thanked me for submitting such a detailed letter. I wonder if the appeal letters are usually emotional rants.
I also got a "letter of recommendation" from DD's pre-K teacher. Who was shocked when I told her that DD was denied. I asked her to provide specific information in the areas of 'concern'.
I'm a realist and I know that DD, while super awesome, is not perfect. If I thought that the committee's observations were valid I would have sucked it up and moved on.
Good luck!!