Driver here.
Reading all this is very intriguing. Its interesting how we as humans justify our social beliefs, an try an understand them when no one knows what there talking about. Or where it originated.
I think before this thread started the question should be asked.
Why do we tip?
Until we understand that question can we truly answer this threads question.
It seems the assumption is payVSlabor.
How much someone makes justifies whether they deserve a tip. Vs how hard a person needs to work for you to justify opening your wallet.
But is it that simple....
I would love for this topic of "why we tip" to be discussed on a grander scale.
Cause think about it.
Everyone has accepted the idea of a waiter or waitress making tips because of there "salary".
Now vs that with labor.
I read people stating that drivers "dont shop the groceries".
Well waiters/waitresses dont cook your food. (The only reason you go to a restaurant)
Sometimes they dont even deliever it to the table.
But we base our tip on there service. (Labor)
Did they bring napkins.
Were they kind.
Did they come back to the table the appropriate amount of times.
Did they bring the check accordingly.
The irony being.
Usually they split a small percentage of there tips with there bus boy. (I bussed tables)
Soo if they provide terrible service that ends up hurting everyone.
Soo now you kind of got to look at it on a larger scale. But then again your assuming all restaurants are equal an have the same mechanics, an they dont!
And to end this example.
With another quote
"If the driver does 8 stops a day".
How many tables do you think your waiter tends too?
At a high end restaurant they may not only make a higher salary.
But there food costs more.
With that 10-15-20% theme that equates to a much more lucrative salary then most would assume.
So after an 8 hour shift of doing multiple tables at once I can promise you there making more then me or most drivers or maybe you the reader.
But... We all still tip.
Thats not even comparing them to bartenders.
Which if you want too do laborVSsalary its crazy considering they stay within a rectangle or square an lift no more then a few lbs an mingle.
And are getting hundreds of tips small an large thoughout the night.
The point im trying to make is.
This topic is silly.
The question is fare.
But the topic is silly.
You never wanna be the person over tipping.
Or being taken advantage of.
And thats understandable.
But clearly if your someone who doesn't want to tip for what ever reason that is. Please dont try justifying it with silly reasoning.
If anything help the driver. Justify it with your own actions.
I dont care if a person was making 200k a year.
Im still going to hold the door for them. Im still going to grab somthing from there hands if they are over loaded.
Once you stop thinking equally of people because you feel there financial situation merits they be treated differently (usually negatively) then your only degrading the evolution of our species an our social growth.
That last part can we worded all kinds of ways an provide a very similar theme.
Soo people.
Ask yourself first.
Why do we tip.
Then ask yourself.
Why am I not tipping.
Or
Why am I tipping.
In the end just do good to others. And the universe will do good back too you.
Good luck everyone!