Anonymous
Post 06/22/2026 19:34     Subject: Husband threatened to cheat
Anonymous wrote:Op, you are at fault here. You need to look into the issue and sex is very important part of marriage. How long do you think he could go without doing it?

also, what if tomorrow, he decide to not share his paycheck with you? That would be his choice that you have to be ok with!!


And if it’s 1914 and women aren’t allowed to work in mist lucrative professions, this is a real problem! But here in 2026 odds are good she has her own money and if she doesn’t the court will give her half +child support.
Anonymous
Post 06/22/2026 17:13     Subject: Husband threatened to cheat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We just had a baby 5 months ago and turned him down for sex, I told him that I don’t enjoy sex anymore after giving birth. He got all angry and said “see, this is why men cheat”, so basically threatening or justifying cheating because he’s not getting sex from me. This is making me distraught, I don’t know if he’s already cheating or just thinking about it. What do I do!


Is this a troll?

Middle aged mom here. You really need to have sex with your husband sometimes, otherwise it's not fair to ask for a commitment. You cant demand celibacy from another human.


That is nonsense. If he does not like it, he can file for divorce. I was in a sexless marriage for many many many years. I am the woman. I eventually filed for divorce, but it wasn’t because of the lack of sex. It was for bigger problems. He had low T and I couldn’t stand him. He did not file. I did. You can demand celibacy and they are free to leave via divorce.
NP. I disagree this is nonsense. If this woman loves her husband and wants to remain married, she needs to address whatever issue is preventing her from having sex. Chances are pretty high that her husband will seek a divorce rather than stay in a sexless marriage.


I am the PP. My ex (a man) chose the sexless marriage. We stopped mutually.

She can attempt to give him a hall pass. Or he can divorce. She does not have to sleep with him. The consequences are on her.
Anonymous
Post 06/19/2026 20:11     Subject: Husband threatened to cheat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We just had a baby 5 months ago and turned him down for sex, I told him that I don’t enjoy sex anymore after giving birth. He got all angry and said “see, this is why men cheat”, so basically threatening or justifying cheating because he’s not getting sex from me. This is making me distraught, I don’t know if he’s already cheating or just thinking about it. What do I do!


Is this a troll?

Middle aged mom here. You really need to have sex with your husband sometimes, otherwise it's not fair to ask for a commitment. You cant demand celibacy from another human.


That is nonsense. If he does not like it, he can file for divorce. I was in a sexless marriage for many many many years. I am the woman. I eventually filed for divorce, but it wasn’t because of the lack of sex. It was for bigger problems. He had low T and I couldn’t stand him. He did not file. I did. You can demand celibacy and they are free to leave via divorce.
NP. I disagree this is nonsense. If this woman loves her husband and wants to remain married, she needs to address whatever issue is preventing her from having sex. Chances are pretty high that her husband will seek a divorce rather than stay in a sexless marriage.


Yep.
Anonymous
Post 06/19/2026 19:29     Subject: Re:Husband threatened to cheat
“Address whatever issue” … could take many appointments and or specialists.
All of my sympathy to the new mom
Anonymous
Post 06/19/2026 17:59     Subject: Husband threatened to cheat
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We just had a baby 5 months ago and turned him down for sex, I told him that I don’t enjoy sex anymore after giving birth. He got all angry and said “see, this is why men cheat”, so basically threatening or justifying cheating because he’s not getting sex from me. This is making me distraught, I don’t know if he’s already cheating or just thinking about it. What do I do!


Is this a troll?

Middle aged mom here. You really need to have sex with your husband sometimes, otherwise it's not fair to ask for a commitment. You cant demand celibacy from another human.


That is nonsense. If he does not like it, he can file for divorce. I was in a sexless marriage for many many many years. I am the woman. I eventually filed for divorce, but it wasn’t because of the lack of sex. It was for bigger problems. He had low T and I couldn’t stand him. He did not file. I did. You can demand celibacy and they are free to leave via divorce.
NP. I disagree this is nonsense. If this woman loves her husband and wants to remain married, she needs to address whatever issue is preventing her from having sex. Chances are pretty high that her husband will seek a divorce rather than stay in a sexless marriage.