Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 22:34     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
Anonymous wrote:This is hilarious.

+1
Absolutely ridiculous
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 21:39     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Sounds like he could use a bigger school to find out that he really isn't all that special.


+1 I remember seeing the formerly popular, confident kids from my high school walking around UVA and being surprised at how completely unremarkable they seemed in a new environment.


DP. My son was part of the popular crowd in high school. When he came home for Thanksgiving freshman year and reconvened with his buddies, I noticed two distinct camps. The first camp, the one that included my son, consisted of kids who had pledged a house. They were loving college and dishing out story after story about all the fun they were having on campus, where they walked around like veritable gods. The kids in the second camp hadn't pledged, expecting, I guess, for their high school popularity to carry them through the college social scene, which is, of course, delusional. They were exactly as you describe: shellshocked by their sudden irrelevance to their peers. They spent the weekend wistfully dredging up stories from the good old days of high school. Before my son returned to campus on Sunday, he mentioned that he had noticed the difference, too, and told me what a great decision it had been to pledge.


How embarrassing that you felt the need to recount that.


+1. This is a ridiculous conclusion. There are plenty of kids on college campuses enjoying themselves who opt out of the Greek system. DS had zero interest in going Greek because it wasn’t his scene. He had plenty of friends and still went to parties and bars.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 21:35     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Visited Davidson and Wake not too long ago. This kid would be happy at Wake. Would be miserable at Davidson.

UVA would also do well, though when the actual lax bros are pulling the chicks and out-chadding him, it might hurt his precious ego.


Chads encountering Gigachads is just part of the circle of life unfortunately.


Even Clavicular got mogged by the ASU frat leader.


I understand very little of this sentence. I need a Gen Z translator.


A young man known for red pill content is not as muscular as an ASU fraternity member who is popular on social media.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 21:32     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
This is going to become a DCUM classic!

I don’t want to be mean OP but are you for real?
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 21:27     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
Anonymous wrote:Wow, it doesn't seem like many people read the OP's request to avoid nasty comments. What do DCUMers have against popularity and traditional masculinity?


Seriously? Critical reading skills would be helpful here.

No problem with the kid.

Mom? Good grief. Where do we start? Perhaps the intersection of troll and lack of self awareness?
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 21:25     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Visited Davidson and Wake not too long ago. This kid would be happy at Wake. Would be miserable at Davidson.

UVA would also do well, though when the actual lax bros are pulling the chicks and out-chadding him, it might hurt his precious ego.


Chads encountering Gigachads is just part of the circle of life unfortunately.


Even Clavicular got mogged by the ASU frat leader.


I understand very little of this sentence. I need a Gen Z translator.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 21:21     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
Wow, it doesn't seem like many people read the OP's request to avoid nasty comments. What do DCUMers have against popularity and traditional masculinity?
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 21:02     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
I am so glad that Swarthmore, where DD goes, will be of no interest to this Chad!!
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 20:56     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Visited Davidson and Wake not too long ago. This kid would be happy at Wake. Would be miserable at Davidson.

UVA would also do well, though when the actual lax bros are pulling the chicks and out-chadding him, it might hurt his precious ego.


Chads encountering Gigachads is just part of the circle of life unfortunately.


Even Clavicular got mogged by the ASU frat leader.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 20:06     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
Anonymous wrote:Visited Davidson and Wake not too long ago. This kid would be happy at Wake. Would be miserable at Davidson.

UVA would also do well, though when the actual lax bros are pulling the chicks and out-chadding him, it might hurt his precious ego.


Chads encountering Gigachads is just part of the circle of life unfortunately.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 19:34     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
Visited Davidson and Wake not too long ago. This kid would be happy at Wake. Would be miserable at Davidson.

UVA would also do well, though when the actual lax bros are pulling the chicks and out-chadding him, it might hurt his precious ego.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 19:32     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
Agree with post upthread - reminds me of Trump talking about his daughter. This mom has a crush on her son. Feel bad for dad. Unless she is picturing son while servicing dad.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 19:29     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
Anonymous wrote:This is so horrifyingly gross. On the off chance it isn't trolling, please step back and stop trying to manage your son's dating life.


+1
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 18:48     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
OP, this is a case where your "Chad" will benefit from self reflection -- this is his own personal journey of self discovery. Should be. And you can't do it for him.
Anonymous
Post 06/15/2026 18:47     Subject: Big or small school for academic "Chad"
I'm glad he has the square jaw. No matter where he goes, he won't have to get plastic surgery later. Phew.