Anonymous
Post 06/07/2026 11:27     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
Face it, OP wants a woman at his beck and call, to live as he sees fit, and when he has time for her.

OP, move on. She's too independent for your neediness.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2026 11:26     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
Anonymous wrote:1) OP could you write a less anonymous post? OPs girlfriend on here like “maybe that’s another 40-year-old with a GSP dating a 45-year-old with two teenagers.” Then again she sounds so slow she might not get it.

2) I cannot imagine the compensating factors that would cause me to not eject right now. She sucks. Pick up the phone right now. You are in a rut. Get out of it.


I agreed there are too many identifying details. Either he is a dope, or a troll. And your 2) is total troll fodder.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2026 11:24     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
Anonymous wrote:It's normal for dog people but not for NON-DOG people.


There, I fixed it for you.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2026 11:06     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
Anonymous wrote:this is a huge red flag. You need to clear it up with your GF on her priorities. She has no time for you or your kids if that's what she does.


She should prioritize her dog over his kids. Just like he should prioritize his kids over everything else in his life.
Anonymous
Post 06/07/2026 10:57     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
this is a huge red flag. You need to clear it up with your GF on her priorities. She has no time for you or your kids if that's what she does.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2026 06:44     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
1) OP could you write a less anonymous post? OPs girlfriend on here like “maybe that’s another 40-year-old with a GSP dating a 45-year-old with two teenagers.” Then again she sounds so slow she might not get it.

2) I cannot imagine the compensating factors that would cause me to not eject right now. She sucks. Pick up the phone right now. You are in a rut. Get out of it.
Anonymous
Post 06/06/2026 04:18     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
Anonymous wrote:All of that sounds normal. I guess I'm lucky that my dh treats my dog like his own child. DH had "manly" dogs growing up, met me with a shih tzu with a pony tail. He's straight up obsessed now. In fact, he just took the dog to Lowes last night


How stupid. People who take their dogs to stores are attention whores. It is pathetic.

The dog doesn't need to be at Lowes and many us would rather you not drag your dogs to places where the rest of us shop or eat.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2026 22:53     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
Anonymous wrote:OP, your gfs attachment to her dog is a way for her to avoid real intimacy with people. That includes you. Move on


This!
Shes just not into you.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2026 22:51     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
Anonymous wrote:Big dogs are a boyfriend substitute and little dogs are a baby substitute. Seems like your seat’s taken already.


I find this stuff so weird because the person in my life who was arguably the biggest dog fan in my life was my grandmother who had 7 children. She took them on long walks every day and the park put up a bench commemorating ber when she died. We brought her dogs to the wake.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2026 22:42     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
I knew my BIL was great for my sister when I watched him give meds and snuggle my sister's elderly dog. That dog ended up loving BIL as much as he loved my sister. BiL took care of him because he's a good compassionate guy it was also a way of showing he cared for my sister and the things that mattered to her.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2026 22:34     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
Do you really want to spend money on her high maintenance dog or boarding anytime you take a vacation? Just move on. People from other cultures might have dogs as pets without putting animals over humans.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2026 21:00     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Oof, you sound like my ex-bf.

I have a high-energy doodle who needs similar hiking trips/exercise needs, or she's a neurotic mess. I wanted to bring her on trips because boarding is EXPENSIVE ($300-400 for a weekend trip, when I wasn't even the one who wanted to go on these trips!) She's allowed on the couch because why not?

My ex-bf used to complain endlessly about her and what a horrible dog she is. He eventually started pressuring me to get rid of her, and I finally I caught him kicking her.

This is the reality of life with a dog. If you want someone to put you first (which, to be completely honest, is not something that's going to happen as you're a single father and can't put a woman first), end things before you get resentful and hurt the poor dog.


That’s terrible that he kicked the dog, but you seem pretty self-involved (and being a “dog mom” makes you self-involved).


If you mean I put my own needs first, yes, I do. I'm absolutely not going to drastically change my life for a man like OP who needs to feel like he's #1 and pouts over a dog hike every other weekend or because I don't want to shell out $300 to board my dog for a mediocre weekend trip.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2026 20:44     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
To me, it’s not normal at all. I am F50 fwiw
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2026 20:41     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
I think your girlfriend needs a different boyfriend.

Some close friends of mine talked online for quite awhile before they met. Unbeknownst to one another, they each brought a dog, so, if the date was bad, they could say, "Oops, gotta go! My dog's in the car." They're very happy together.
Anonymous
Post 06/05/2026 20:37     Subject: Girlfriend obsessed with her dog
Anonymous wrote:Oof, you sound like my ex-bf.

I have a high-energy doodle who needs similar hiking trips/exercise needs, or she's a neurotic mess. I wanted to bring her on trips because boarding is EXPENSIVE ($300-400 for a weekend trip, when I wasn't even the one who wanted to go on these trips!) She's allowed on the couch because why not?

My ex-bf used to complain endlessly about her and what a horrible dog she is. He eventually started pressuring me to get rid of her, and I finally I caught him kicking her.

This is the reality of life with a dog. If you want someone to put you first (which, to be completely honest, is not something that's going to happen as you're a single father and can't put a woman first), end things before you get resentful and hurt the poor dog.


That’s terrible that he kicked the dog, but you seem pretty self-involved (and being a “dog mom” makes you self-involved).