Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 21:41     Subject: Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
Yes, two. They had serious issues that would have made them poor long-term partners, but BOY oh boy.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 20:37     Subject: Re:Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
Unless he's the Amazing Kreskin, I assure you, he's not reading your mind. I suspect you just found a man with extraordinary patience. He probably views you as a challenge.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 20:20     Subject: Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.


Not wanting to give oral immediately isn’t a sign that a woman is lazy. Some women see it as degrading to service him like that and want to love the guy first. It’s usually low quality women that don’t hesitate.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 20:13     Subject: Re:Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
Anonymous wrote:Yes, just once; I confused it for love and for many years I could not get past it even though I’m certainly intellectually that he would have been a huge disappointment as a partner if I’d stayed with him.

A very strong sexual attraction and compatibility is incredibly intoxicating. It’s likely rooted in biochemistry that would result in very healthy offspring, but in modern life means nothing with regard to healthy relationship dynamics or successful parenting.


That is very funny to think about since I married that guy. Our kids are not remarkable (not gifted, not very athletic) but they have unbelievable immune systems. They never get sick and have no allergies. My friends kids all seem to be sick once a month.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 14:36     Subject: Re:Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
Yes, but sadly its not my spouse. It was someone before then, we were compatible in so many ways, except for age. He was older and done with kids. I wanted a family.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 12:54     Subject: Re:Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
I was pretty inexperienced when I met my now husband and I’m surprised he stuck with me early on. I thought sex was basic kissing and then quick PIV. Thanks to him I slowly loosened up and over the years there’s not much we haven’t done together. We both love outdoor sex and we’ve wandered off many hiking trails and go at it like crazed animals.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 12:28     Subject: Re:Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
Oh yes, he could read my mind and know exactly what I wanted. I’d get so turned on that I’d do whatever he wanted like a dog with a bone. But he was nothing more than a great lay so I moved on.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 11:08     Subject: Re:Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
It’s hard to see if I’m sexually compatible with men when dating. I’m so grossed out by their whoring around. Sex is everything protected I’m avoiding anything but PIV because I can’t know for sure where his lips, P etc were last night

When I was exclusive with exH we could explore because I trusted him. Good sex to me comes from high level of trust

Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 05:29     Subject: Re:Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?


I truly pity those who don’t have any memories at least somewhat similar to these. When sex is both a new thing and great. They say that youth is wasted on the young, but that’s not how I remember it.
Anonymous
Post 05/15/2026 05:07     Subject: Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
Anonymous wrote:He was a former college acquaintance I ran into about 7 years later and we became FWB. He was shorter than me but was a college wrestler. He is the only man who ever picked me up, lol. I stopped seeing him before the sex got old, when I met future DH.


I miss those days DJC. Or maybe this isn’t you?
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2026 23:59     Subject: Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Great Question

As a man, I've only had (3) really compatible partners out of literally dozens. Finding a woman that actually isn't shy nude, passionately enjoys oral both ways, able to O without toys, and puts in as much effort as me, is truly hard to find. Sadly, most women are just lazy, period.


Ha! I am all of these without knowing it is rare! I hate toys- I find they hurt. But I otherwise o pretty easily. Sorry gentlemen I have been married a long time and you are missing out! 😂🤣😂


That doesn’t mean you have to deprive us of your talents!


Ha! I will let DH know I have fans and opportunities!
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2026 15:29     Subject: Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
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Anonymous wrote:Reading this thread is very concerning. Why are so many people having sex with people they are not married to?

Please repent. There is a day of judgement. Only have sex with person you are married to.


Is pegging, oral, and anal okay if you're married?

No those are unnatural acts.


Then why do sooooo many people enjoy oral? Doesn't that make it natural, by definition?

Is French kissing okay?

Just because so many people enjoy it doesn’t make it natural. So many people enjoy smoking and drugs. That doesn’t make it natural.

Yes French kissing is okay.


So kissing the lips and tongue is okay but kissing some other body parts is not? Who decides this?

You do realize that humans use of tobacco and many other substances has been happening for thousands and thousands of years, right? Long before the Bible was written.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2026 15:14     Subject: Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
Anonymous wrote:Yep. I am married to him. I don't take it for granted for a second.


Good for you both ❤️❤️
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2026 15:13     Subject: Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Reading this thread is very concerning. Why are so many people having sex with people they are not married to?

Please repent. There is a day of judgement. Only have sex with person you are married to.


Is pegging, oral, and anal okay if you're married?

No those are unnatural acts.


Then why do sooooo many people enjoy oral? Doesn't that make it natural, by definition?

Is French kissing okay?

Just because so many people enjoy it doesn’t make it natural. So many people enjoy smoking and drugs. That doesn’t make it natural.

Yes French kissing is okay.
Anonymous
Post 05/14/2026 15:12     Subject: Have you ever been with someone you’re 100% sexually compatible with?
Yep. I am married to him. I don't take it for granted for a second.