Anonymous wrote:I was not award that my DH is AuDHD, and so did he. He is high functioning, unmedicated and never diagnosed with zero therapies or school supports, and he is just a bit social awkward. Well, my 2 kids are both AuDHD plus extra diagnosis. Gene passed down. It is tough and I am jealous of other parents having easy kids and no need to worrying much. There are something that my kids may never achieve or enjoy or do due to their disabilities or capabilities, and I feel frustrated. Well, I think it that way. All I can help is try to get them to their full potential with their limitation. If I give up on them, no one would do or help them. I cannot help them down the road forever, and it is ultimately they are the ones that suffer the most.

If I knew that my DH is AuDHD, sorry, I would not have children with him because I would rather not to be born to be judged and suffered. Since it is too late, I just have to be brave and sucks it up to do my best to help them to grow. This week is teacher appreciation week, I am always generous to give out giftcards to teachers that help them.

Anonymous wrote:I wish there were support groups where people could go and say these things to one another. Just to be in the company of people where you wouldn't have to worry about being judged or excoriated or put on a psych hold. There are groups for sex addiction and shopping addiction and Weight Watchers....where's the group--supported by an expert, in a field that should have its own specialty--for this group?