"Crabs in a bucket"

To the women here coming to bash men; of course your entitled to your opinion, but consider why on a post directed to men, asking men to share their feelings, that you feel the need to come in and be negative rather than supportive.

It's the equivalent of a post asking women about about sexual abuse trama, and having a bunch of men coming in and saying "not all men"

If you're here to bash men, it's because you don't want them to have a space to speak, even when its directly asking them to, your reinforcing that they're feelings aren't valid enough to be shared.

So when I say crabs in a bucket, it's about staying on the topic at hand.