Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 19:20     Subject: Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Wait until age 50 and up. Very bad things begin to happen to thin women’s faces, necks, and behinds.

This is aging. We will be lucky to be and look old. I've seen younger women (late 20's, early 30's) who look terrible from sun damage, alcohol use and poor choices. As for thin women getting older and looking "bad", that really depends on lifestyle and genetics. Facial skin laxity and loose neck skin are the reality of natural aging for most people who eschew plastic surgery, etc. Looking ones age is not a character flaw. To answer op, happy people who make others feel good about themselves are the most attractive people, regardless of age or size.


Yes, all true. Just reporting from my own experience that my neck cords and cheekbones stick out in an alarming way when I’m 10 or 15 pounds down, but smooth out nicely when I’m back up. Thin-as-beautiful stops working in middle age.


Thin-as-beautiful stops working in middle-age. This is true. But obesity-as-ugly continues.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 19:15     Subject: Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Ehhhh
It depends.
Im a WOC and while thin-ness helps
There are other factors



Like what?


Education
Salary
FICO/Credit score
Career
Zero baggage - no kids/baby mommy/daddy
An azz thats not flat


I could go on and on



Sigh. I’ve got all of the above and I’m thin/fit while also a good cook and a kind person with hobbies and interests. But I’m annoying and I talk too much and I’m probably on the spectrum somewhere. It took me 36 years to find a partner as weird and annoying as I am/doesn’t mind how weird and annoying I am. This is the first relationship I’ve ever had make the two-year mark and so far so good.

Men like women who are soft and feminine and agreeable, and preferably quiet. I am not.


Social skills are a whole other thing. Poor social skills can be worse than obesity.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 19:11     Subject: Re:Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:Thin is important and then invest in procedures to fix things like big nose, etc

Here is a basic run down how this person who is not that attractive but thin looks good



She is hideous.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 18:39     Subject: Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:Thin and unable to have children? Men would rather have a healthy weight partner, and a partner who has not sabotaged their health.


Im surprised you could type that with your fat greasey fingers.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 17:56     Subject: Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:We know men don’t like fat women. But what if you’re thin and are not conventionally attractive?

Do you have a better shot at dating?


It depends on if you are ugly or just average. Face counts for a lot but you don't have to be a stunner.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 16:52     Subject: Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:We know men don’t like fat women. But what if you’re thin and are not conventionally attractive?

Do you have a better shot at dating?


Yes, of course.

When I was 20 pounds overweight, I could not get any man to date me.

When I was BMI 20, I had tons of options.

Nothing else about my appearance or personality changed. I’m not attractive facially.

Going from a body 2 to a body 8 or 9 changed my life. Had I had some plastic surgery like a nose job, I probably could have snagged any man I wanted.

Such is life.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 15:58     Subject: Re:Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:Here are 3 very beautiful plus size women.
Most men would pick them over any thin and unattractive woman.
Weight isn’t everything. Facial features and body shape matter more.



Is this a joke?

God, if I saw any of those 3 getting on a plane I would just be praying they did not sit next to me.

Hit on then? Uh, not in this lifetime.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 15:06     Subject: Re:Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Here are 3 very beautiful plus size women.
Most men would pick them over any thin and unattractive woman.
Weight isn’t everything. Facial features and body shape matter more.



I do not think most men would pick them. Obese women like these clearly are attractive but it’s not universal.


Everyone looks good in short dresses with deep necks, make up, high heels and styled hair.


Uh... no they don't.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 14:52     Subject: Re:Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Here are 3 very beautiful plus size women.
Most men would pick them over any thin and unattractive woman.
Weight isn’t everything. Facial features and body shape matter more.



I do not think most men would pick them. Obese women like these clearly are attractive but it’s not universal.


Everyone looks good in short dresses with deep necks, make up, high heels and styled hair.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 14:17     Subject: Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:We know men don’t like fat women. But what if you’re thin and are not conventionally attractive?

Do you have a better shot at dating?


It sure is socially beneficial to be thin and tall compared to being obese and short. It is also easier to become fit if you try. As far as being attractive goes, go to a good saloon for cut and color and Sephora for make up and tips. You can also use artificial nails, eyelashes, hair, colored lenses, nails, heels etc for that. If still not happy, get some plastic surgery and cosmetic dentistry done. Some people get good looks in inheritance and others can buy it, same difference.

Just be kind, productive and confident and you'll do fine. Becoming educated, social and successful also takes some work but all is doable.
You’re giving hangry PP. All you need is some buttery biscuits and gravy and all will be well in the world. I promise you. hahaha


No, thanks! I prefer to keep my arteries unclogged.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 14:15     Subject: Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:If you look around, there are a lot of married or coupled women who are not particularly attractive, and many who are overweight. There are a lot of coupled men who are balding or poorer or short.

I'm not denying that these factors matter to some extent, or that people who lack these qualities are slightly less likely to end up married, but it amazes me that people can live on this planet for decades and not observed that human mating is extremely complicated and cannot be reduced to a handful of simple dimensions.


Beautiful women and men are difficult to keep as they are often high maintenance, self absorbed and get distracted by availability of other options.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 14:11     Subject: Is it enough to be thin?
Obesity is hereditary, unattractive looks don't kill people but health issues do. can
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 14:00     Subject: Re:Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:Here are 3 very beautiful plus size women.
Most men would pick them over any thin and unattractive woman.
Weight isn’t everything. Facial features and body shape matter more.



This is an AI generated photo which tells you a lot about how often you see women of this weight looking this good. For example, at these sizes I think it’s actually difficult for overweight women to find cute dresses. When most women’s weight goes up they don’t stay a nice hourglass shape, the weight distributes too much in one place like thighs or tummy or face. I see very few plus size women doing their hair or makeup this way. And I’m not small myself, I’m just saying that most overweight women can’t be this attractive even with trying. When you reach a certain weight it is very hard.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 14:00     Subject: Re:Is it enough to be thin?
If the island of Lesbos was for a certain type of woman, perhaps an island called Fatmos can be for the big pounder women.
Anonymous
Post 04/11/2026 13:57     Subject: Re:Is it enough to be thin?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Here are 3 very beautiful plus size women.
Most men would pick them over any thin and unattractive woman.
Weight isn’t everything. Facial features and body shape matter more.



I do not think most men would pick them. Obese women like these clearly are attractive but it’s not universal.

Agreed. Not me either.