Anonymous wrote:OP here-- It just really seems weird to me to ask for a word file. As many of you mentioned, the file format should not make any difference. I do know it is easier to edit a document on word. I was not expecting her to edit it, and I honestly dont think she would have edited it. I think my theory comes from resume writing services where they only give you the pdf file.
I have let it go and hopefully she just thinks I am weird too. She is from a South Asian country. I will admit that I felt incredibly taken advantaged of with the lunch thing. It really rubbed me off the wrong way.
I don't think its weird at all. You are asking her to look at it and make changes. She is not a mentor, she's an acquaintance that you are taking advantage of and using her. You are really entitled to expect her to pay for lunch when you are asking for her help. You should have paid for at least yourself, if not both of you. You are 100% wrong.