Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 23:47     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

This site has a very very weird reaction to big families and pregnancies approaching 40. Everywhere else on earth, this is fine.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 21:20     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

Anonymous wrote:Why not refer to your 3 year old as a 3 year old?


I was thinking the exact same thing!
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 21:18     Subject: Re:I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

Anonymous wrote:Why are you so thirsty for attention??
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 21:18     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

Lesbians like to fill all the uteri! Flex on the fact that they can buy sperm and don't need men.

But also, super high divorce rate, so I'd like an AMA when the frenzied breeding is over and you are fighting over the talking stick in your sharing circle with your litter of cubs ten years from now. I mean, I hope it works, but your optimism is AGRESSIVE.

Why didn't you just adopt?
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 21:14     Subject: Re:I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

Why are you so thirsty for attention??
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 20:49     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

Anonymous wrote:Why don't you use birth control?


Because it's a lesbian couple using IVF.
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 20:11     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

Why don't you use birth control?
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 19:57     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

nobody cares about your abusive husband with a breeding kink
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 19:48     Subject: Re:I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

Is your name Lassie, girl?
Anonymous
Post 03/03/2026 19:33     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

Why not refer to your 3 year old as a 3 year old?
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2026 11:11     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

Anonymous wrote:My only question would be finances...life is expensive for just 1 kid around her much less 4. Pre-school, nanny, etc. all cost a lot. I see it with my D and son-in-law and they have 2 kids. They pay a fortune for their nanny and pre-school for their 4 year old.

Do you either of you come from a wealthy family and thus have a financial trampoline? Having financial support or knowing you are getting a chunk of change at some point certainly makes things easier!


Thankfully my wife has a very stable job and is a high earner. I work a few nights a week to keep my license and for extra cash (IRA, vacations) and so I can have a life outside of my kids.

My wife comes from nothing (single mom with lots of kids) but worked her ass off to get where she’s at. I came from an upper middle class family. My parents did help me through college and I am very thankful for that and know that’s a huge privilege. We do not get any financial help from family but my MIL helps us often (she lives in our guest house). So another privilege.

We would not have this many kids if we couldn’t afford them. I am an only child and my wife is one of 7. We met in the middle with four kids.
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2026 11:07     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

Anonymous wrote:I find your post concerning because you talk about your kids like they’re a project. As they grow, please remember that they’re each their own person.


You’re right. Maybe I should change their names from Model A, Model B & Model C to something else?
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2026 11:06     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

Anonymous wrote:Why do you think I have anything to ask you?


You just asked.
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2026 10:46     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

I also had 5 kids under 7 when I was 33. We made it work just fine. The school years were non stop!
Anonymous
Post 03/02/2026 07:12     Subject: I have a 10 month old, 18 month old & 36 month old (and I am 6 weeks pregnant). AMA

I don't see what the big deal is? I had the same spacing (and add in a twin girl pregnancy at the end) so I had 5 children. I did have help.