Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 17:40     Subject: Re:Men, would you date a petite woman?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Op here. I feel insecure as tall statuesque women like Caroline Bassette Kennedy or Kate Middleton are held up as the ideals of beauty and male desire.
I’m feel inadequate due to being tiny and petite!

Wipe that out your head. Can’t speak for all men, given the choice between a tall woman or a petite woman, I’d take the petite woman.

I felt the same way as OP for a *long* time. I was so insecure about my height. But, I did date guys 5'7"+, and DH is 6'2". I didn't go looking for such a tall man. 5'11" was my ideal. It just ended up this way.
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 17:39     Subject: Re:Men, would you date a petite woman?

I am 5' 2'' and he is 6' 4''. not my tallest, either.
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 15:04     Subject: Men, would you date a petite woman?

I’m petite 5’1 and never had someone tell me my height was an issue. I was always popular with guys.
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 14:57     Subject: Men, would you date a petite woman?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do you worry about attracting pedophiles? (Legitimate question.)


You are probably a pedophile.


No. I'm a woman and always wondered that about men who preferred petite women.


Women prefer taller men; many men prefer petite women. It triggers an instinct to protect and provide, and to cuddle.
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 14:55     Subject: Men, would you date a petite woman?

Anonymous wrote:I’m 114 lbs and 5’1. Small bone structure but I also have nice breasts.

I’m curious if my height and smallness would not be attractive on the dating market. I’m a size 2 and dress in cute feminine clothes.



Of course! Sounds ideal.
Anonymous
Post 02/28/2026 13:07     Subject: Men, would you date a petite woman?

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do you worry about attracting pedophiles? (Legitimate question.)


You are probably a pedophile.


No. I'm a woman and always wondered that about men who preferred petite women.


Women can be pedophiles too.


Sure, and if a woman exclusively dated short, young looking men, I would also wonder if she was a pedophile