Anonymous wrote:I think the definition of a crush varies wildly here. When I think of a crush, it’s an innocent school girl giggling, he’s cute kind of thing. I am not fantasizing or flirting and I would obviously never act on it. DH has a huge crush on Kate Middleton and said if she was in the same room as him he would swoon and start stammering if he had to talk to her. I think it’s funny and cute, I never thought of it as cheating. Some of your definition of crush sounds like unhealthy obsessions, which imo is not a crush.

Anonymous wrote:Having a crush on someone at work is definitely not a crush‼️

All people develop crushes on other people from time to time - - even those who are married.

It is only natural to develop crushes on others at some point in their lives.

It is reality.