Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here.. thanks a lot for the kind words, encouragement.

We were done and four kids was our goal, but we did slip up. We have all the household help, money, or whatever else, so that isn’t the issue, I’m just annoying by him and his lack of ability to help himself, or I don’t know maybe it is pregnancy hormones.

If you have all this help what exactly is it that he's supposed to be doing but isn't?

All of his responsibilities. His appointments, work, family, friends, his meal planning and making meals x3 a day just for him, his clothing, his self care, everything.

Anonymous wrote:We’ve been together for 15 years and have four kids (11, 9, 7, and 3) and I’m currently pregnant with a surprise fifth. I still work full time and life is busy and exhausting.

Over the years he’s become really hard to be around — almost like another child. I manage his life on top of everything else, and it’s wearing me down. Deep down I still believe he’s my soulmate, which makes the disconnect confusing and painful.

My kids give me a distraction and keep me going. I’ve talk my mom, she’s the only person I have, but I don’t feel comfortable talking to anyone else, and I don’t really have friends, so I just needed somewhere anonymous to vent.

Anonymous wrote:This has got to be a troll. No one is this dumb.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here.. thanks a lot for the kind words, encouragement.

We were done and four kids was our goal, but we did slip up. We have all the household help, money, or whatever else, so that isn’t the issue, I’m just annoying by him and his lack of ability to help himself, or I don’t know maybe it is pregnancy hormones.

If you were indeed done after FOUR kids why wouldn’t you get a tubal or a vasectomy?

DP

We don't do family planning on DCUM. We have children first, then we hope that the father is suitable.

Anonymous wrote:I know you said you have help, but do you spend time away from the kids?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here.. thanks a lot for the kind words, encouragement.

We were done and four kids was our goal, but we did slip up. We have all the household help, money, or whatever else, so that isn’t the issue, I’m just annoying by him and his lack of ability to help himself, or I don’t know maybe it is pregnancy hormones.

Op, you aren't "done" until one of you goes through menopause, gets a sterilizing procedure, or is immaculate in using birth control.

You have a DH you apparently now don't like with whom you are having 5 kids. He will probably keep on knocking you up to keep you around and waiting on him.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here.. thanks a lot for the kind words, encouragement.

We were done and four kids was our goal, but we did slip up. We have all the household help, money, or whatever else, so that isn’t the issue, I’m just annoying by him and his lack of ability to help himself, or I don’t know maybe it is pregnancy hormones.

If you were indeed done after FOUR kids why wouldn’t you get a tubal or a vasectomy?

We are our 30s, still young and healthy, did not feel the need to have medical procedures that drastic to prevent kids. With the fifth, it was just an impulsive decision, didn’t think, and it happened.

Congrats. Honestly If you’re young and rich, why not have babies.

Maybe don't have babies if you partner doesn't want to be a parent?

This may explain why so many posts here are complaining about deadbeat parents who don't want to parent.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here.. thanks a lot for the kind words, encouragement.

We were done and four kids was our goal, but we did slip up. We have all the household help, money, or whatever else, so that isn’t the issue, I’m just annoying by him and his lack of ability to help himself, or I don’t know maybe it is pregnancy hormones.

If you were indeed done after FOUR kids why wouldn’t you get a tubal or a vasectomy?

We are our 30s, still young and healthy, did not feel the need to have medical procedures that drastic to prevent kids. With the fifth, it was just an impulsive decision, didn’t think, and it happened.

Congrats. Honestly If you’re young and rich, why not have babies.

Anonymous wrote:OP here.. thanks a lot for the kind words, encouragement.

We were done and four kids was our goal, but we did slip up. We have all the household help, money, or whatever else, so that isn’t the issue, I’m just annoying by him and his lack of ability to help himself, or I don’t know maybe it is pregnancy hormones.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here.. thanks a lot for the kind words, encouragement.

We were done and four kids was our goal, but we did slip up. We have all the household help, money, or whatever else, so that isn’t the issue, I’m just annoying by him and his lack of ability to help himself, or I don’t know maybe it is pregnancy hormones.

If you were indeed done after FOUR kids why wouldn’t you get a tubal or a vasectomy?

We are our 30s, still young and healthy, did not feel the need to have medical procedures that drastic to prevent kids. With the fifth, it was just an impulsive decision, didn’t think, and it happened.

Congrats. Honestly If you’re young and rich, why not have babies.

Are you having a boy or girl, or not sure yet?

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here.. thanks a lot for the kind words, encouragement.

We were done and four kids was our goal, but we did slip up. We have all the household help, money, or whatever else, so that isn’t the issue, I’m just annoying by him and his lack of ability to help himself, or I don’t know maybe it is pregnancy hormones.

If you were indeed done after FOUR kids why wouldn’t you get a tubal or a vasectomy?

We are our 30s, still young and healthy, did not feel the need to have medical procedures that drastic to prevent kids. With the fifth, it was just an impulsive decision, didn’t think, and it happened.