Anonymous
Post 02/02/2026 09:46     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do they say they look pretty? Cute? Hot? Sexy? What do they say?


All of the above married over 40 years. Not everyday, and I am short middle aged chubby now he still sees me like I was in my 20's.

In our mid 60's.



+1, we are late 50s.
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 21:10     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
In all ways, but they are ignored because they have to say those things. Literally so unappreciated that the compliments aren’t even heard. The random says anything nice and he really appreciates her for who she wants to be though.
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 19:26     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
Mine does.
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 18:57     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
I grew a full bu$h and DH says “I love your kitty.”
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 10:24     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:*fit


Fellow man here. I’m with you. Men are not attracted to fat women. We have to be honest about this. No reason to beat around the bush.


I gained weight and went up 3 cup sizes. DH likes me more now than before

To each his own
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 09:54     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:A father at one of our kids parties commented that his wife needed to loose weight… After she reached for a cupcake.

I found it very rude for him to put her on blast.

Ugh ..



* lose


Thank you
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 09:32     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
Anonymous wrote:My wife was more attractive "fat" thank skinny under weight loss drugs. She has aged significantly, all her curves are completely gone. It's weird, you would think losing weight makes you look younger.


Not after a certain age it doesn’t and if you lose enough fat, you will look drawn and scrawny no matter how young you are.
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 09:29     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:^ crawl back in your cave


Why? I am athletic and fir. Why would i find my fat wife attractive? What’s worse is she didn’t even realize how fat she got until i pointed it to her and asked her to lose weight


You don't call a person you love a fat wife. You say my wife who has weight issues. You don't ask her to loose weight, you ask her to eat healthy, workout and get annual medical check up.

I did try the bolded for over a year but she wasn’t getting the message. Finally I had to be more direct and it is working out much better


I’m sure it is for the man she will eventually leave you for.
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 09:29     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:*fit


Fellow man here. I’m with you. Men are not attracted to fat women. We have to be honest about this. No reason to beat around the bush.


I gained weight and went up 3 cup sizes. DH likes me more now than before
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 09:13     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
Anonymous wrote:Do they say they look pretty? Cute? Hot? Sexy? What do they say?

You got a phat a$$ babe and I like it!
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 08:00     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
Anonymous wrote:A father at one of our kids parties commented that his wife needed to loose weight… After she reached for a cupcake.

I found it very rude for him to put her on blast.

Ugh ..



* lose
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 02:22     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
I work at home (not by my preference.) We really try to avoid each other during the week. But on Fridays, she wears something sexy before dinner and we have a little happy hour. I grad her ass and cup her breasts while we drink cocktails. Later, we have aggressive sex that bleeds into the next morning. That’s how we deal with work from home.
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 01:23     Subject: Re:How do men compliment their wives these days?
Anonymous wrote:People that need constant compliments are pathetic.

Agreed
Anonymous
Post 02/01/2026 00:23     Subject: How do men compliment their wives these days?
Anonymous wrote:Women can never win. Either we’re too fat or too skinny. Our boobs are too big or too small. I have as close to the perfect body as you can get (apart from a B cup chest) and I think the best compliment I got from DH was “your hair looks nice”. I just tried on a bikini because we’re going on vacation and his response was “that’s a little too risqué. It’s a family resort”. I barely have any boobs. How tf can it be too risqué?

Our society sets silly standards. I (a man) think B cups are great.
Anonymous
Post 01/31/2026 21:30     Subject: Re:How do men compliment their wives these days?
People that need constant compliments are pathetic.