Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This is the strangest thread. Why on earth would I stop buying fine jewelry at 50+?

Why would you start? It's in the same category as fake nails, tattoos, piercings, and pink hair. Less is more.

Fine jewelry is like fake nails? So buying a Patek Phillipe or Lagos or Roberto Coin necklace is similar to dying hair pink??

Anonymous wrote:This is the strangest thread. Why on earth would I stop buying fine jewelry at 50+?

Why would you start? It's in the same category as fake nails, tattoos, piercings, and pink hair. Less is more.

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Anonymous wrote:I understand you, OP. I bought a few very nice necklaces in my twenties and have worn them for over twenty years. I realized that I would get to more for my money if I bought all of my jewelry as soon as possible. In my thirties, I purchased a broach and my husband got me a wedding set. In my forties, I bought a bracelet. I’m not sure if I’ll buy more jewelry. I let my holes close in, so no more earrings. I have two bracelets that I like, a half dozen necklaces, and two rings. I only wear fine jewelry once or twice a year. I adore big gemstones, but I can’t justify spending that kind of money. What’s left to buy? I can only wear so much at once.

You sound like a bore.

I’m frugal. I only have sons and nephews. I bought classic pieces at the tippy top of my budget, so they still speak to me. If they cure metal allergies, I’d get my holes redone and buy a few pairs of earrings, but that’s not happening now. I’d rather spend my money on other things.

These lists of "classics" are so predicable middle class. YAWN.

Anonymous wrote:This is the strangest thread. Why on earth would I stop buying fine jewelry at 50+?

Apparently everything stops at 50. Clothes, looks, hair, sex, career advancement, overall happiness, purpose for existing. Why get out of bed? It's the position we're all going to end up in eventually. Obviously the answer is whether it's wise is no one else's call and from experience most people who question it can't fathom doing it themselves and sees no point so regardless of $$$ and lifestyle no one else should either. Those types are . My way, way, way past 50 year old mil just bought a new car. We tried to talk her out of it but if you see a silver haired woman in a silver Lexus SUV, that's her!

This is the strangest thread. Why on earth would I stop buying fine jewelry at 50+?

This whole thread is sad. What if you’re 50 and live another 40 years. Why stop buying if you really want something?

Fine jewelry has very little value besides sentimental value. I know this from my own mothers estate - and we learned the hard way through appraisers and an auction house for the many pieces that nobody in the family wanted because they were not their "taste". The dream that everybody will want your favorite heirloom pieces is just that. My mother had lists of who would get this and that - and although she had exquisite taste, times change, styles change, and lifestyles change. Ironically (I don't think she would have guessed this) her handbags and coats are what everybody wanted and fought over. Perhaps bags are another trend, but the auction houses begged for those and not one was left unclaimed between her children and grandchildren.

I’m a jewelry fiend and at 40, I think I’m just now wrapping up!

Diamond earrings
Diamond pendants (2)
Bracelets (3)
Wedding set
Eternity band

Maybe a tiny for my 10th anniversary? We’ll see.

Classic:

Gold (yellow, white) or platinum stud earrings like Tiffany Gold knots or such for everyday - elevates subtly

A gold or mixed metal (Cartier trinity) or platinum pendant necklace with a pendant that goes with everything (metal or hearty gemstone).

A gemstone ring.

For dressier:
Mikimoto pearl pendant
Mikimoto pearl earrings (pearls are flattering).
OR Gemstone earrings in color that complements your wardrobe

A Bangle - gold, so many choices

Note: I just threw Tiffany and Cartier out there for reference but find what you like - that is most important

I would spend money on pieces that are flexible in your wardrobe.

Keep in mind as you get older ... there are certain areas you might not want to draw attention to (hands, neck? Everyone is different). Earrings pretty safe bet.

Also, consider the clasp difficulty

Anonymous wrote:I am finding in my early 40s I can finally afford nice jewelry but all I want are classics. A set of pearl studs, gold hoops, a nice ring, a daily necklace, a strand of pearls, a nice watch. Working up to this and then I’ll be done.

+1 45 and same. Jewelry screams matronly. I don't care if it's the Hope Diamond.

I’m 50 and we didn’t have the $ to buy nice jewelry until the last couple of years. I never thought I was a big jewelry person, but I recently realized it’s because I didn’t think of it as an option. DH gifted me a tennis bracelet recently that I love and wear almost daily. A tennis necklace is coming soon. Yes, I’m totally a basic b, but I’m into it and excited to acquire other pieces.

Anonymous wrote:Please tell us what classic pieces to buy! I’m over 50 and can afford it now.

Yes! I want ideas too!

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Anonymous wrote:I don’t buy super expensive jewelry. My grandmother always had fakes made of her real jewelry and she admitted it was silly because no one could tell the difference. I also like pretty simple jewelry.

I always wonder about this when it comes to things like tennis bracelets for instance. Fake and real look the same.

Fake is fine but I don't understand owning a real piece and keeping it in a safe and having a fake copy made to wear. Unless you're a royal.