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I can’t imagine how anyone could risk their family for an affair and eventually divorce.

This language makes no sense in OP’s situation. Risking one’s family implies that someone wants to stay in the family. OP’s husband wants to shake off the family and be with the AP.

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Anonymous wrote:Mine found a married whore online. Disgusting scumbags. It wasn’t love. They fkkkd up two families with their selfishness at 50 for absolutely nothing. They had great lives. Self-loathing losers.

Reality hit at 55 and they are both miserable fks all alone, each throwing one another under the bus.

It’s mental illness—-bpd, narcissism, delusions of grandeur….a fantasy that then blows up in their faces.

And, yeah, I’m not a whore looking to go out and fk strangers in midlife. I’m still hot and could- but wtf- who is just having random sex with randos??? Dumb whores

I am a woman and a lot of us do. It is just sex, you are thinking too much.

No, very few women do casual sex with men they barely know. Speak for yourself and don’t generalize. I tell it as somone who had a ho period in my life and even poly relationships.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Mine found a married whore online. Disgusting scumbags. It wasn’t love. They fkkkd up two families with their selfishness at 50 for absolutely nothing. They had great lives. Self-loathing losers.

Reality hit at 55 and they are both miserable fks all alone, each throwing one another under the bus.

It’s mental illness—-bpd, narcissism, delusions of grandeur….a fantasy that then blows up in their faces.

And, yeah, I’m not a whore looking to go out and fk strangers in midlife. I’m still hot and could- but wtf- who is just having random sex with randos??? Dumb whores

This assertion just SCREAMS internalized misogyny, poster.

There is nothing wrong with a single woman having as much sex as she wants with however many men she wants to have sex with. Or she can be as prude as she likes to be - either choice is valid.

I would urge you to read as much from the feminist canon as possible before you move on with any serious relationships with other men.

There is a problem with that. You are substituting feminism with encouragement of risky sexual behavior. Of course women have right to sleep with whoever they want. But for many, if not most women promiscuity carries much higher emotional and physical health risks than the benefits of prospective O. The satisfaction after short term flings or ONS is low: most women need emotional connection to feel desired and reach O.
It’s really a stupid idea to recommend a woman like OP who is incredibly vulnerable and has kids to look after to go out and engage in promiscuous sexual endeavors.

Anonymous wrote:You didn't see it coming? How? My ex didn't, but he could never read the room.

Kindly F off.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Mine found a married whore online. Disgusting scumbags. It wasn’t love. They fkkkd up two families with their selfishness at 50 for absolutely nothing. They had great lives. Self-loathing losers.

Reality hit at 55 and they are both miserable fks all alone, each throwing one another under the bus.

It’s mental illness—-bpd, narcissism, delusions of grandeur….a fantasy that then blows up in their faces.

And, yeah, I’m not a whore looking to go out and fk strangers in midlife. I’m still hot and could- but wtf- who is just having random sex with randos??? Dumb whores

This assertion just SCREAMS internalized misogyny, poster.

There is nothing wrong with a single woman having as much sex as she wants with however many men she wants to have sex with. Or she can be as prude as she likes to be - either choice is valid.

I would urge you to read as much from the feminist canon as possible before you move on with any serious relationships with other men.